Newbie Friendly

I would recommend contacting someone that's newbie friendly. They deal with guys that don't have references and should be able to run you through their newbie screening process. Just a thought. Go over to the ad board and search newbie friendly and you should strike gold!😁😁

.....is pick from those of us who are NUB friendly (not all are) that are entirely legit ( with creds ie website, some reviews, etc) follow the instructions for screening explicitly (without any of the "but back in the day") and upon successful completion of an appointment ask for a reference if necessary and possibly a recommendation to another trusted provider and you are back in the game.  Be prepared what screening you had if any 6 years ago is a little tougher now....
Orally yours
Suzee

join a screening service like P411.  That alone won't sway some gals, but it will definitely be a point in your favor.

Honesty

I think being honest is the key. Reveal some of your true identity and employment may be required too. If you seem hesitant we might think you are shady and not want to see you. Or just pay to join some verification website....