So you are doing the searching, you search everyone that caters to your tastes in your town.  You finally come up with a list of 10-20 people you want to see.  How do you decide among that list.

Basically, how do you break the fear that you might come up with a dud or a provider that screws you over.  Sure, the reviews are there but I am still a little tentative.  I have done this before and mostly do a TOFTT but I always undecided.

Is there such a thing as too careful?

Then you are setting yourself up as the phrase relates to seeing a lady with few or no reviews.  This makes your statement "sure the reviews are there" somewhat confusing.

The key is, and always has been, to see a well reviewed lady.  That's not a 100% guarantee as the saying "YMMV" comes to mind.  However, its much less risky than choosing ladies without a solid track record.

Take a close read of the reviews. There is no reason to TOFTT at this point. yes you may not get exactly what you want since all expoeriences vary. May be a good say for her or it may be a bad day. A careful reading of the reviews should show you who is consistant. Good luck.

I suppose yu could be too careful if it immobilizes your decision process.  Narrow it down to 2-3 and then go for it.  
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Are you tentative because you're concerned about LE? A will reviewed lady diminishes those odds.

Are you just picky? Are you easily disappointed if you feel the chemistry isn't quite right? Those are issues that may not easily be remedied, other than experimenting by seeing well reviewed ladies, then sticking to one or a few that float your boat.

Contact 3-4 you are attracted to via email or phone.

Get a feel of who you feel at ease with.  I like the one who is more professional, more clear with communication, and sends several pictures of her.

Use your Big Head always! Not your Little Head.

The most attractive and prettiest girl may not be it.  She could have a fake picture. She may be more expensive, and she may not perform what you like. No BJ ? No kissing?

If they have over 10 reviews, the likelihood of them being LE is pretty small.  As a newbie, you also need to see if they are newbie friendly.  You may have to provide some personal info for screening, unless you are a member of one of the big verification sites.

DO NOT TOFTT AS A NEWBIE.  It ain't worth it.

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contact them all.

tell them you're interested in setting up an appointment and you'd like to know the best way to go about doing that.

through this initial communication whether it be by phone or email, you should be able to eliminate a good 85% of your "bucket list".

1.   i dont care if her reviews say that she's the original aphrodite, if she acts like a bitch, she's probably a bitch.  

thats gonna knock out a good 25% of them.

2. another 25% will think something is wrong with you and either not answer your email or hang up on you or whatever. don't take it personally.  there is no "right" way to conduct yourself because every escort has her own methods based upon her prior experiences or lack thereof and it's just not possible for any guy to be able to jump through the correct hoops all the time.  

ok now you're down to half.

3.  another 25% will have whatever (a), (b) or (c)drama you can possibly think of or they are out of town or you have conflicting schedules and can't meet with you anytime in the near future.

4.  another 10% you will never get ahold of because they have left the business, changed their name & their phone # or whatever mysterious reason they are now incommunicado with anyone trying to make an appointment.

whoever is left, is the girlie of your dreams (hopefully)









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