I am going in to this hobby as it seems alot of people are and am trying to avoid a scam or even worse getting busted. Are there things that you should ask the provider are there things you should say to get you and them in trouble. how do you handle not geeting caught up in the wrong place at the wrong time? any reply would be helpful thatnks^_^

Ok, first of all do your homework, there are plently of resources for newbies, including this website. There is also "theotherboard.com" and the "bearsboard.com". Additionally the majority of the ASP's have there own websites or are affiliated with a website, that will basically tell you all you need to know. The more experienced and professional ASP's will also have links for newbies in which you can absorb the proper etiquette.

The vast majority of ASP's are very professional and know exactly what they are doing. They are also very good at what they do. They are not cheap, but well worth what you pay. If you stick to locating your ASP on the web you'll never have to worry about this problem.

Have Fun

If you feel that it's a uncomfortable situation. Ask if they are affilated with any law enforcement group. You should get a immediate answer. If you don't leave. Don't let the little head run the big head.

-- Modified on 7/22/2004 5:26:57 PM

Bottom line, do your TER homework before seeing anyone.

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Well if she has a badge you can be pretty sure it is LE....the gun and cuffs just further confirm it.

YEAH  YEAH I know i am being a smart ASS

Seriously midnighlover and hzl gave good advise.
Happy hobby and be safe

Thank You

LE doesnt have to tell you they LE if they are uncover.
Kiss

Yes I learned the hard way I got there after the girl who I was supposed to see had been detained by LE or taken somewhere. If the girl your supposed to see named say Kara does not sound like Kara and looks good be careful. That is what happened to me.She said she was Kara  and not involved in LE. So there it happened and who would believe me? But I am still in the hobby and stick to TER girl descriptions and voice after meeting her to make sure she is real mcoy. If you believe in entrapment laws read some trial books or" Trial by Jury" - Brill is author, talks about the what really happens.  Good luck and I am still having fun and see alot worse crimes all over.

and then do your homework before booking an appointment.  That means:

1) Find a lady who interests you (the VIP search form is a great place to start).

2) Read her reviews.

3) Note how many reviews the provider has.  More is generally better.

4) Note how recent the reviews are.  More recent is generally better.

5) Note who the reviewers were, and read some of their reviews of other providers.  Are the various reviews consistent with regard to style and approach?  Do they review a wide variety of other providers?  The reviewer crosslinks provided in the reviews are a huge help here.  If you see a pattern where a provider has just one or a few reviewers, who have reviewed only her or the same small set of providers, then beware -- a setup is possible.

If you follow the above guidelines, the chances of falling into a scam or getting busted are effectively nil.  Good Luck.

Cheers!

worry less about if he is a cop b/c cops can get regular id if needed and worry more about what you say and do that a jury would interpret as prostitution

I was falsely arrested for theft one time when I had the receipt to the dvd on my credit card so you can be innocent and put in jail...didn't make me a thief.

never agree to have sex for money
tell the guy that you aren't in the mood b/c your rent is due and if he offers to pay it, then you are in the mood to celebrate his generosity.....or you can do like me and get the guy to have dinner w/ you first so that another activity is involved in the session...A jury wouldn't find you guilty if other activities are involved in the relationship

I used the web recently to locate a provider and still was scamed.  While I am still relatively new to this some things became abundantly clear while doing my research.  Most providers ask for a "deposit" up front.  The provider I found did also.  However her guidelines for the deposit were that it be a money transfer "cash only".  I noticed that the wire transfer was to a name other then the one the provider was using online.  Fine no problem I understood.  Privacy I thought.  The provider could only be contacted by email also, and even though she included a phone number in her wire transfer instructions she was very specific about not calling her.  Long story short the provider didn't show.  Several names, email contact only, cash deposits beforehand, at what point does it end for a hobbyist just to be able to have a goodtime?  And when I tried to post a review or a discussion about my experience I'm not allowed.  With all the talk about protection for the provider what protects the hobbyist from being ripped off?  Remember if a client does't show up what is the provider out of, she will always book another appointment but if the provider doesn't show what am I out of?  In this case $150.  Being new shouldn't mean being a target.  Anyway using the web doesn't guarantee anything it's always a crapshoot anyway you go.

Do you receive my other e-mail on Sat, if not let me know, you really need an education my friend.

A relative of mine is a retired policeman.  He did work Vice.

LE is absolutely allowed to lie in these situations!  

Think about when LE is undercover in a drug investigation or another situation.