I'm realizing as I ask this question, that it sounds ridiculous *but* I have a long-term relationship at home and I can't afford the risk of bringing home anything at all. Anyway, I have my first ever session with a provider this week and having read the reviews, I know that she is often generous with the LFK/DFK.  

So, my question is: if she a offers me this (or generously moves in close enough), how do I respectfully turn it down without offending her?

Yeah, I realize I'm cutting out a lot of the fun this way, but I gotta do what I gotta do.

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Just don't understand

the provider might think that you think something is wrong with her (i.e. bad breath, cigarette breath, you don't like her teeth, etc.) So you probably should just speak up about not wanting to kiss if she initiates the kiss.  

You are also correct in that some folks will think that's "ridiculous" and that you are missing out on the "fun." If safety is a concern and you gotta do what you gotta do, why even book with a GFE provider? I assume if you want to avoid kissing, you also want to avoid BBBJ and DATY. In that case, there are many ladies out there who offer "lesser" services, (CBJ and CFS and no extras) for lower rates than GFE ladies.  

Then again, do what you want. Lol. It's your "hobby" We can't tell you how to hobby.

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Just tell her you do not want to kiss and want to do ______ instead.

What they told me is that they save kissing for their SO.  No reason at all that you can't say the same.  They'll understand.

Just turn your head and avoid it if she tries again just be honest ... Like some have said ... Tell her you save it for so ... Many of us providers feel the same ... I know it sounds crazy but kissing is more personal

Just mention it at the start of your time together, she will understand.