Newbie - FAQ

Just me but I would look elsewhere....
niie2004 1938 reads
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1 / 11

A provider has a few good TER reviews spanning over a few years, ads on backpage (not explicit) and other sites, google search of phone number with just her pics over at least 2 years, has own in-call, appears to be legitimate overall....but over the first phone conversation when asked for her 'fees for an hour' says "x dollars for everything inclusive including FS". Is the mention of FS a red flag to avoid an appt? How worried should one be of a sting in operation. It appears to be an unlikely case but still makes me a bit edgy.  Any tips on going about proceeding if this is an otherwise very desirable provider? Cancel and call another time asking for just her 'time'? Would that negate anything from the prior conversation? Would appreciate your thoughts...thanks.

JoeBanzai 30 Reviews 562 reads
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2 / 11

How else are you going to find out except by asking? Her answer could have been a little "cuter", but the bottom line is, you asked, she answered.

If it scares you, pass and pick someone else. If she has several reviews over a few years, she is probably not LE, but always go with your gut feeling.

DJ1985 21 Reviews 513 reads
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3 / 11

if she has a good review and ad history, you asked and she answered. That being said, if you're to nervous about it going in you likely wont have fun anyway. There is always risk but try not over thinking things.

niie2004 393 reads
posted
4 / 11

Thanks guys for the feedback. Yes, there would be no way to know without asking since it's not posted elsewhere...so from my perspective that was an unavoidable question (to properly compensate her). The expected reply, I would think, would not include mention of any activity such as FS...but rather something like "__ dollars for __ amount of time"...nothing more. Or maybe I am overthinking it. Thanks once again!

brilove See my TER Reviews 346 reads
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5 / 11

Maybe she doesn't know better ... You could be LE ... Maybe she is careless idk but yes in the end you decide if you feel comfortable with that ... It's you who is taking a risk.  

I would add that if you see her and everything goes well, let her know how you almost cancelled due to that and then send her to TER ... It helped me a ton once I found it.

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 333 reads
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6 / 11

...are listed in the profile.  However, if you want to verify the fees, you ask her if all the information in her profile is accurate.

1192967 45 Reviews 345 reads
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7 / 11

...If she had screened you and was confirming the appointment she may have been OK  with being more specific. This is simply one possibility. I have the feeling from your post that this was your initial contact in which my suggestion wouldn't apply.

niie2004 353 reads
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9 / 11

xyz...no not much of a screen. Quick conversation.  Mention of ad on BP only. No mention of TER. She provided her residential incall address without hesitation and a time was decided. Thereafter followed the rate question...

bigpapasan/brilove...yes I have VIP. May be a newbie mistake in assuming that not all reviewed providers necessarily need to be members or aware of this site? Regardless, some of the details did appear outdated....nothing comfortably verifiable on the phone...other than the rate perhaps.

Still learning....thanks for all your feedback.

case321 31 Reviews 329 reads
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10 / 11

A lady's buisness model organization skills or lack there of can tell a lot about her. If she isn't careful enough to screen you, what else is she overlooking? Take some time and find the right lady. Just my two cents, but most providers who are solely on BP and no nothing of TER or similar sites and screening practices are going to be a let down. It's like the diffrence between getting sushi at 7-11 versus a really nice place. Both will fill you up but do you really think after leaving the 7-11 you'll be telling yourself "damn I'm glad I did that, that was the best shit ever" No ya won't, do a bit more research and find a better quality gal at least for you're first foray into this world. Good Luck!!!

keystonekid 114 Reviews 321 reads
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11 / 11

don't have any reviews, I'll assume you are a newbie. Newbies should carefully read provider reviews to be sure they are seeing someone who is newbie friendly. Since you have VIP, this should be easy to do.

Good luck.

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