so I would shy away from asking them.

If the services you want are not described in their profile or reviews, just assume that they are not available.  Both of those items are listed on the profile page, by the way.

As much as we would all love to aske specific questions, it is too risky to broach these things in email or on the phone prior to meeting.

There are certain things that can be asked.  For example if you have a specific clothing request, that is fine to ask about.  You can also ask about most BDSM services as they are not illegal, for the most part.

I do a lot of research before I see a lady. I am a VIP member of TER but some of my questions, are still not answered in reading reviews. For example I love kissing but I want her to be comfortable and also like kissing.  So sometimes I send an email asking is kissing ok? Also in a massage session I like B2B and most times the lady will answer me. Sometimes she ask me ..what is B2B (body to body).  So I just wanted to know what questions are ok and what questions are not ok???  Thanks and enjoy your weekend!!!

You mentioned that you have VIP, and you should have the answer to the providers services if you have VIP. It will state if a provider LFK (light french kiss) or DFK (deep french kiss). Other services that you might like will also be displayed suck as greek. If you have other questions, you can PM (private message) the previous and recent reviewer (or any reviewer of the same provider) for additional questions about the provider.

I am almost certain that asking a provider if she kisses will terminate the discussion because that is solicitation and means for entrapment. You do not want to ask questions about any kind of services over the phone or on e-mail. The best thing you can do is review the provider. You can however ask for the services once your there with her. But, you have to already be naked and she as well, and somewhat already in the middle of the action. If you have to upgrade to get the services, then so be it.

Also, here is a link that might help you with future questions, its attached at the bottom. You can find it on discussion board, under Newbie or any other board. Look top right of corner. It says "self-help center"

I just use every available bit of information before requesting the appointment.  Not until the meeting is well underway...  can you whisper a request...   Yes, have to take a lot on faith...

.....asking a provider about body-to-body massage, as that's not an illegal service.  As you say, sometimes they will ask what B2B is, but I've never had anyone refuse to answer that question.