If you have done your research you already know what is on the menu. If you want something that is not mentioned on her site or in her reviews you should probably assume that it is not available and move on...
Some women may choose to talk specifics before an initial meeting but the vast majority will not. The only way you are going to find out is to ask and of course run the risk of getting denied.
I recently went through a provider's screening process and was cleared to make an appointment. Soon after, in an email to the provider, I asked if a few specific things were on the menu (multiple pops & rimming for the most part). I used typical hobbiest language which I thought would shield me somewhat from seeming like LE. The provider told me that I should not ask such questions before the first meeting and told me that she would not see me. The interaction left me wondering if the only way to get my questions answered (her TER reviews and her website not providing enough detail), would be to go see her. The trouble, of course, is that I don't want to see her unless I like what she has on the menu (Is that too much to ask?). Adding to my confusion is an interaction that I had with an experienced TER member who told me that email is a good way to make specific requests. On top of all this, I recall reading a few hobbiest etiquette webpages (e.g. http://sexygfes.com/articles/Etiquette.htm) that said I should not "talk about sex," which I have taken to mean "don't talk verbally about sex," which to me implied that communicating via email was acceptable. Having said all of this, I have had some providers talk menu with me via email while others revert to anti LE language like "prostitution is illegal." How to resolve this conundrum?
Most of us will not reply to any request for information about services however it was requested phone, text, email, smoke signal, or in person. I would suggest you PM those who have reviewed the lady and ask them what else might be on the menu.
If you have done your research you already know what is on the menu. If you want something that is not mentioned on her site or in her reviews you should probably assume that it is not available and move on...
Some women may choose to talk specifics before an initial meeting but the vast majority will not. The only way you are going to find out is to ask and of course run the risk of getting denied.
You can't. Some women might respond via e-mail and answer your questions, but these women are also more likely to get busted for that exact reason. With your e-mails on her laptop for good measure.
Specific clothing requests and other types of requests that are not specifically sexual are fine. I've been asked to put my hair in pigtails, wear a particular outfit, etc and that is fine. But if a guy asks me if I do this or that, it will be the last e-mail. I won't even reply because there IS no safe reply.
I understand your frustration, but e-mail is even worse than questions asked on the phone, because now there is a record of exactly what was said.
You are correct, the only way to get your questions answered with most women is to see them first, then you can ask detailed questions. Someday maybe prostitution will be decriminalized and then this won't be an issue at all. One can only hope.
. . . sections of the reviews should give you the information you need regarding multiple pops. Rimming is another story; there are few activities that are more YMMV. Most providers' profiles list "no" or "don't know" for rimming, and not all reviewers discuss everything that happens in an encounter because rimming and other activities may not be on the menu for everyone. I cannot imagine an upscale provider agreeing to rimming before meeting the client, and perhaps not even on the "first date" even if it is on her menu.
And by the way, if you are a relative newbie choosing a provider without enough reviews to discern whether she offers multiple pops, well, you can count yourself as taking one for the team.
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