Newbie - FAQ

It's better to communicate. She may think it's a generous tip. EOM
mrfisher 112 Reviews 744 reads
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if you do want to have more time and don't feel like discussing money, just discreetly leave extra donation where she will see it according to what her rates would be for the extra time.

I'm sure things will work out OK.

mister-clyde 1948 reads
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Most, if not all, legit providers stipulate that there must be no talk of money at any time during the date. What happens if you know she has an open block after you and you'd like to extend your session? How do you communicate and compensate for this without violating protocol?

MsChayse 725 reads
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Once you have engaged in what ever tickles you, "wink" asking for additional time (in most cases) should not be a problem.

ziggy440 84 Reviews 621 reads
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But many providers are happy to go over the allotted time on a first date, or most dates if you are respectful of their time and they do not have schedule constraints. It is courteous to acknowledge the extra time afterward and offer to compensate for it, which may or may not be accepted. But, as said above, it is just fine to discuss money after the date has gotten to a certain point if you want to do that.

Just keep in mind that many ladies, and guys, too, prefer not to discuss money until the very end as it can interfere with the fantasy. Probably more an issue with guys than ladies, but some ladies find it spoils the mood, too, or at least I have gotten that impression.

Zig

Carrie Hillcrest See my TER Reviews 512 reads
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A gentleman discreetly giving me more money toward the end of a date with no request for more time says "here's a little extra for being so awesome" to me. :) If you want me to stay for another hour/the night, ask me to stay, and inquire how much compensation that would require.

I mean, you can't say "How much is it for us to do the Upside Down Half-Nelson with a Robot Twist?" or some other innuendo, but you CAN ask for more TIME.

p.s.
The UDHNRT is probably not on the menu anyway.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 605 reads
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she may have other plans for after your scheduled date is to end.  Best to communicate you want an extra hour since providers have real lives too.

czcodger 5 Reviews 1116 reads
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The extenstion will typically be at the same hourly rate, or a reduced rate.

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