I'm having a bit of trouble reconciling the idea that 1) you're concerned about risky practices with 2) not concerned enough to not do them!  You think those risks only transmit one way? Or did they girls force you to do these things?  

Yes, those things are quite common.  Some contact is accidental, some is intentional.

Read the reviews.  Do your research before you make the visit.  If you are not comfortable with the menu items the lady offers then your choice is to NOT see her.  If you are not comfortable with a BBBJ, tell the lady you want a CBJ.  If you aren't comfortable with DATY then don't do it.

As far as the "thing to thing" bare contact.  There might have been some incidental contact while moving around, or it might have been intentional.  Only you know the real story.  Bottom line.  If it bothered you then don't go back to that provider.  If you are concerned about it in the future, make sure your companion knows BEFORE you start that you want "everything covered at all times".

Don't know what else to tell you.  Good luck on the testing but I wouldn't be too worried.

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Once you enter this hobby you have to know there are risks involved for you and the provider.

The majority of providers do BBBJ and DATY, and quite a few CIM and various other activities.

The provider does not know what her client has been up to before meeting with her. For all she knows he may have been F------ a dog.

As for the client, you must know that the lady your with might have been with 5, 10 50 men in the last week, and who knows how many over the course of a year.
So yes its a risky business for both, and unless the providers and clients get tested regularly (which aint going to happen) there is always a good chance of getting some sort of STD.

A few providers offer BBFS, and some men take that offer.
For all you know that same man might have been with your provider before you, and even if she does not offer BBFS, she is still likely to do OWO with him, so however clean you think your lady is, there is still a risk involved, and always will be.

and do a search on the CDC, you'll find threads with a link to the CDC's site showing relative risks of various sexual habits.

Less scientific, but nonetheless informative is the fact that 90% of providers offer the unsafe practices you mention, and incidences of STDs are rather rare.

You have to decide for yourself.

Read the CDC website for statistics and facts about oral, vaginal, and anal sex statistics.  

Only you can decide what you are comfortable with.  You can always ask for a condom before getting blown.  You can always NOT DATY or use a dental dam.