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katwalk1 1726 reads
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Hello TER,

I am getting ready to book my first appointment and was not sure how to select the length of the session. Does the time start as soon as you enter the door; or after the introduction, business transaction and a quick shower has been completed? Thanks for your help and have a nice evening.

scazdude 29 Reviews 588 reads
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The amount of time you want to spend on your first appointment is up to you but I do recommend at least an hour and a half or more with your date.  This gives you plenty of time to get comfortable with one another before any fun may start.

As far as time goes, it starts when you walk through the door but don't worry about that too much.  You'll have more than enough time and the really good ladies don't watch the clock.  I do caution you not to take advantage of running over your allotted time.  Once your time is up, do the right thing and get ready and thank the lady for a wonderful time.

riorunner 496 reads
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Hi katwalk;
   I think you should figure that your time begins when you walk in the door. This way you'll be pleasantly surprised by those dates which give you some leeway. Myself, I'm always freshly showered when I arrive though I know for many that's not always feasible.
  I've found things to be highly variable as to how a provider handles time. Not at all surprising since they're not wind up toys! It will depend on things like what the chemistry between you two feels like, how closely she may be scheduling appointments, what's going on in her non-work life and other things too numerous to mention. It also will often change over time if you continue to see the same woman.
  Some clients prefer to book more than an hour for a first meeting because it gives them time for get- to- know- you chit chat, others won't do more than an hour the first time in case there is a lack of chemistry. My point is we're all different and have differing ways of approaching things.
   My best advice is to be respectful of the lady's time and be prepared to be out within the time you paid for. If, during that time, you decide you'd like to stay then ask her, don't assume anything. And be prepared to compensate her for the additional time.
   Hope this helps some and happy hunting!  Regards.....RR

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 436 reads
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The previous posters pretty much got it correct. Time starts when you cross the threshold of the incall.
Intro convo or shower is all part of the time. I rarely turn a lady down if she suggests a shower. It's a way for me to show her I respect her desire for me to be squeaky clean for her. As for how much time you should book, everyone is different. Having done this for awhile, I have found that an hour  first date works best for me. One of the other posters said an hour and a half, so that works for him.  You'll need to experiment a little bit, to find out what amount of time works best for you.

katwalk1 391 reads
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Yeah, I was also thinking an hour, but wasn't sure when the time started. Speaking of which I didn't know I was supposed to keep track of it. Do you guys set an alarm or something?

crazyshit 362 reads
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crazyshit 411 reads
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That way, you don't find yourself with two minutes left, trying to get off before the next guy comes over.

mindoverbatter 300 reads
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Also make sure you read her reviews to see if she gives multiple pops.  If she doesn't, your time is over after you blow, even if it's 15 minutes into the date.

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