Had a rather unpleasant experience in Las Vegas this week while trying to hobby for the first time.  

On Monday I contact a well-reviewed girl through P411 and suggest a meeting on Tuesday at 5PM.

She writes back Monday evening and suggests 4PM.

I write back and say, great, I am actually switching hotels Tuesday morning, but I should be checked in by then.

She writes back and says send me your room number and I will call to confirm around 3PM.

On Tuesday I check in to the new hotel and send her my room number by 11AM.  She writes back and says she will be calling around 3:30PM to confirm.

She doesn’t call or show, so I send her an email at 5:30PM that says, “I hope you are OK”.  

She writes back around 8PM and says she got stuck in court and couldn’t use her cellphone.

I know, I know.

But, she does say she is available all day Wednesday.  I write back and suggest 6PM.  She doesn’t respond to this one.

On Wednesday morning I write that I will be out until 3PM but I look forward to seeing her at 6PM.  She writes back and says OK

Never heard from her.


So, did I get NCNS on consecutive days?  Or is it only NCNS if she confirms an hour before but then doesn't show up.  Did she probably just get a better offer?  Am I the biggest loser who ever tried to hobby, lol?  Do you guys put up with a lot of this?  Even by well-reviewed girls?

Thanks for all comments.

Just relax and try someone else.
It's not as if you can complain to the better business bureau.

Chill out, don't worry if it was once or twice.
NCNS is part of hobbying, it's happened to just about everyone, as the saying goes "shit happens"
Even well reviewed TER escorts will behave unprofessionally at times. Don't over analyze.
Just be glad it was out call, and you didn't drive an hour or two and then have a ncns or you took a room specifically for a date.  Sounds like you were there on business and needed the room anyway. BTW, I like that court excuse the provider used, I never heard of that one, very original! You know the old saying, "if you don't succeed at first, try try again" Good luck!

according to your account...

"She writes back and says send me your room number and I will call to confirm around 3PM."  The tentative date was subject to the confirmation call which never came, so the date was off.  

"On Wednesday morning I write that I will be out until 3PM but I look forward to seeing her at 6PM.  She writes back and says OK"  In this case, the date was not subject to a confirmation call & the date should have been ON.  

There is no hard & fast rule about confirming one hour ahead.  Some ladies may do this but others not.  None of my Favs do...  a good thing since I'd be already half way there when making that call.  

The other posters have it right...  time to move on.  I don't know if I'd give this provider another chance but it's clearly up to her to contact you.
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This is from the Las Vegas board.

If you're a VIP member, feel free to send me a PM.  No envelope here, but user name is little phil.  Depending on who the lady is, there may be more to the story.

If she doesn't confirm it is not really a NCNS but she is still guilty of bad behavior. Honestly, I would not have given her a second chance.

the first time it's pretty clear, the second is a little more iffy but because she blew you off the first time and you gave her a time and she came back with 'ok" id have to say yes, you were blown off a second time.

it sucks and im sorry it happened to you, especially twice in two days. I sure hope you were able to salvage your play time on that trip.

it sounds like she wasn't a great communicator and likely a flake and there's not a lot you can do at this point but post something on the regional board but that's not really going to help ya at this point.

its a pitfall of the hobby and happens on both ends and well .... it sucks.

why did you give this one a 2nd chance?  First assumption is you did your homework and the gal is a well reviewed lady.  Otherwise, shame on you.

When I am to travel I do research on agencies in the cities that I will travel to. There are good agencies in all cities. I keep the contact numbers of several good ones in a city. Using good agencies virtually eliminates a no show problem. I determine, before trips, whether an agency is good by putting it's phone number in TER search and examining the review performance of the agency ladies. An agency whose ladies have generally strong performances makes my contact list.

"It's not as if you can complain to the better business bureau."

Oh! You made me laugh-Funny!

In both cases you were essentially "tied" to your room, waiting on her.  (That first time, if she is "confirming" at 3:30 for a 4PM appointment, you're confined).  Just because she didn't do that 3:30 call doesn't mean she wasn't a NC/NS.

The second time, you were locked in as well to your location - I'm sure you were sitting in your room at 6PM, hoping she showed (I've been there).

Yes, this is a double NC/NS