A.) Ask a provider if they offer BBBJ and/or CIM? I guess you can say these are particular "fetishes" of mine, but how can I be sure if a provider is willing to fulfill such requests without being disrespectful or just comming off as a jerk? Do providers usually take-on such requests? I'm aware there are health issues involved and all, but if one proves they are "clean"...will that usually do the trick? Oh and is BBBJ/CIM usually involved in a "PORN STAR EXPERIENCE?


B.)Ask if it is possible to bring along a digital camera and/or a video cam to a "date"? I'm sure most of the ladies wouldn't appreciate having pictures taken during a session but even if it's intended for personal use only? Would I have to sign some kind of waiver?


Ok, yes, I am a rookie to the "hobbyist" scene (hence the silly questions)...so any advice or answers to said silly questions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!!!  

Qustion A, No, No, and No. Most providers will either hang up on you or ignore your e-mails if you ask them queastions like that. Researching her reviews is your best bet.

Question B, Some ladies will allow it, most will not. All you can do is ask.

As for silly questions, this is the place to ask them.

Reviews are definately the best way to get that info.  Easily obtainable (if you're a vip member)

Some ladies will answer your menu questions cold turkey.  But not many.  

If you've seen her before then she'll talk, obviously.  But then you wouldn't have the same questions at that point...would you!?

I've always politely asked what was on the menu (asking for acronyms) and have not had a problem.  Also, between reviews and web site info you should be pretty informed, but it's not foolproof.

I feel your pain, as I'd like my next experience to be "no quit/spit".