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Introductory email to provider
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As a noob is it unusual to email a provider I'm interested in an introductory email? What are some key points that I should include? Obviously I'm new to the hobby and would like to covey that to her. Is it ok to tell a little about myself? How much info is too much info. Obviously no talk of sex and money. Just wanted to let her know a little about me before she decides to screen me. Verification should ease her mind about le concerns but I thought that a nice email would let her know I'm not a creep. She private messaged me unsolicited with her phone number but I feel a little more comfortable with an email first and leave the ball in her court. A good peice of advise I'm using from those experienced here is to find a provider that suits me and stick with her. I just dont want to wade through a bunch of unpleasant experiences to find the diamond. Suggestions please.

Newbie,
  I find a good policy for the introductory email is to give a short general greeting such as "hi", followed by the mention of where you saw her ad, that you live in or will be in her area soon, and that you would be interested meeting her for a "session" of so many hours on a certain day and at a specific time of that date. I always mention that I have references available on request. Then a "thank you" followed by your first name or your hobby name. Do make sure that punctuation, grammer, and spelling are impeccable. And you should have already done your research on her by this point.

  Thats it! Don't give/offer too much info, she just needs to know at this stage that you are interested. If she wants to pursue this contact, she will generally email back with days and times she might be available, and a request for references or personal info for verification purposes. Give her at least several days to respond, as she might be on the road, on vacation, or attending to things in her outside life. My policy is that if she doesn't respond to this first email, I cross her off the list, but thats just me. If your references/info check out, she may offer up more specific times and dates, which both of you must agree to. Then, enjoy the anticipation of meeting a new friend.

   Throughout the process, remember that this is a business arrangement, and treat it as such. Keep the emails polite, professional, and brief. "Nice", as you mentioned above, does not really apply here. Its not a civie relationship. Never mention sex or money. Contacts can be a little more informal once you've had a session with her, but don't waste her time- she's a business associate, remember?

Good luck, and hobby safe!

No,it is not unusual to email a provider an introductory email who you are interested in.Of course the key points would include:your name,where are you located,phone# if you provide this method of contact or email.Include where you saw her at,the date and time,length of appointment  and if it is Incall or Outcall.
If you have references providing the links to the ladies websites and/or ads is extremely helpful I would also include when and where you saw your references.
Also,include if she needs more info than what I described above to please let you know.

It is amazing how fast the process of an appointment can be handled when all of the above info is provided.Too bad some do not include this info which then creates a back and forth pattern.If you want to include a description of yourself that is fine as well.Also,if you are a member of a verification site you might want to include that info as well in the introductory email.
Good luck to you!
Jaydalee

Read her site thoroughly, and be sure to note any information that she asks for in your reply.

Also, if you haven't already, read the Self Help Manual that is linked on this page as it will contain helpful information on how to contact a provider as well.

Best wishes as you start out.

Introduce yourself!  Try to include a little information about yourself. I don't need a novel, but help me get a sense of what you're like... age, profession, last great book you read - you get the idea. Entice me, or make me laugh. One line emails are no fun!

Include where you'll be staying, the date and time that might work for you, a few alternate times if applicable.

I agree with other posters here... read her site to see what sort of information she'd like to get from you.

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