Hi, as you can see by he question I am new to this. I found someone I would like to see, but she said that because it is
the first visit she will only allow the incall location, because it is safer. Someone please explain wouldn't it be safer going to
a large public hotel for the first visit? She does have good reviews but I never went to an incall location before and I am a little concerned about LE.  Any comments would be appreciated.

It's safer for the provider in the sense that you NEVER know what you are walking into at an outcall location, even if it is a well known hotel. You could have anything in the room from weapons to video equipment. Not to mention the providers fear of LE. If she has good reviews I don't see much fear of LE if everything checks out.

There shouldn't be a problem with in call ... I go all the time .. your lady just feels more comfortable in and around surrounds that she is used to ... Many ladies don't like the hassle of doing outcall ... as for LE .. did she find you or did you find her?  The odds of you hooking up with LE from you doing research on TER or that she has her own website or she is using a  service like Cityvibe, Eros, etc.  has got to be in the millions .... relax, think, then if it still feels good go for it ... if not find someone else there are 1000 to choose from ... hobby safe hobby well hobby all you can be

Incall feels safer for me because I know there's no recording devices in the apartment and no possibility of an LE set-up.

Plus, I personally have taken away all identifying papers in the apartment, and I hide money and my car keys. So, assuming that LE comes in with a search warrant, hopefully all they will find is a purse with lipstick in it.

In case a client acts strange or frightens me, I know the fastest way to get out the door or balcony, or which wall to bang on to alert the neighbors.

Lastly, all the comforts of home are there--nicer than most hotels--upscale furniture and sound system, luxurious bedlinens and towels, scented soaps & candles, and a whole drawerful of Victoria's Secret to choose from in case the client wants me to greet him in lingerie at the door.