I hope this finds everyone in good health and spirits. My name is Vessyl. I have been attempting to connect with other providers for quite some time. This lifestyle choice can be quite lonely and it's hard to maintain friendships with people that can't relate or don't agree with your chosen path. It would be nice to have a stable support system or network of providers that I could build relationships with that doesnt have a pimp, lean on in times of need, get advice from assistance building my brand, women that would mind even seeing clients together. I have never really known quite how to initiate such things. Whenever I have reached out to other providers in the past I never get any response or sometime a very rude or disrespectful. Please feel free to share your thoughts, concerns, or honest feedback on the subject matter.
TER can be very welcoming so I suggest you post to your Regional Discussion Board. (You're based in Cincinnati, OH? Post to the Ohio board.) There is also a "Providers Only" Discussion Board; look under the "Other" tab. You need to ask TER to put you on the "allowed" list. Traffic on those boards might be a lot slower than you're looking for. But maybe you can make a connection. Also, see which Providers are posting on the Ohio AD Board. See if they post to the discussion board or other (e.g., General) boards to assess their personality or opinions. Then, reach out via PM or their contact info. . OFF of TER, look into support organizations such as Coyote ("Call Off Your Old Tired Ethics"). http://www.britannica.com/topic/COYOTE-organization Their CAPTCHAs are blocking my vpn so you're on your own to find a website. Some are coyoteLA (Los Angeles), coyoteRI (Rhode Island), ... etc.. . https://harmreduction.org/issues/sex-work/ https://swopusa.org/ ... Rather than copy-and-paste a bunch of other SW-friendly orgs from a google search, here's a list: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_sex_worker_organizations#United_States . Maybe others can comment on which ones offer what you are looking for which seems more social - personal support and not so much on the legal - advocacy side of things. . Anyway, maybe you can find something useful on that list. . Good luck!
Posted By: Vessyl301930
Hello TER family,
I hope this finds everyone in good health and spirits. My name is Vessyl. I have been attempting to connect with other providers for quite some time. This lifestyle choice can be quite lonely and it's hard to maintain friendships with people that can't relate or don't agree with your chosen path. It would be nice to have a stable support system or network of providers that I could build relationships with that doesnt have a pimp, lean on in times of need, get advice from assistance building my brand, women that would mind even seeing clients together. I have never really known quite how to initiate such things. Whenever I have reached out to other providers in the past I never get any response or sometime a very rude or disrespectful. Please feel free to share your thoughts, concerns, or honest feedback on the subject matter.
Hi Vessyl, i have encountered the same problem. I took me forever to find anyone that gave me that sense of community i thought i would find in this line of work. To my surprise, not many women are willing to be friends for a vast array of reasons. Im from Memphis. I know thays not very close to Ohio, but if you ever feel like you want to talk to someone, please feel free to reach out to me. I may not be able to answer all your questions, but i will always have a friendly ear. My email is [email protected]. Ill give you my numbers if you want someone to talk to someone. Youre right that this job can be incredibly isolating, and sometimes you're gushing to about something, ans just need to tell someone. Anyway, reach out if you need to! Take care! Lita
It's a pleasure to make your acquaintance. Omg thank you so much for even acknowledging my existence. I wondered if any other providers could relate. I'm 30 and been in the industry for 10 years and have not once even had a cordial friendly conversation with another provider about our common tribulations just to have a safe space to have an outlet. You have no idea how much it means to me that you reached out. On my journey to becoming a better provider one of the biggest things is networking but they never tell you how to do that unless you're apart of a stable/agency/brothel or a street walker and though I do not judge the preference of Service neither apply to me. I sincerely hope that youre doing well and I look forward to speaking with you further.
I have been in the bizz for many years even tho I'm slowly fading into a new stage of life. But am always around to answer questions and give you support. Just contact me via [email protected]. I normally check my email multiple times a day other then Sundays.. Best of luck in the hobby
Hey there! Im newbie here. I just wanted to let you know I couldn’t agree more with all that you said & would be more than happy on chatting with you some & even becoming friends! Everyone deserves a good friend that is trusting & free of judgement! I’m not sure how this site works fully yet, but here is my email if you ever wanna chat! 🙂 [email protected] Xoxo
Hii I’m kindof new ter also and I think providers should all be friendly to one another and we can help one another by telling each other who is safe and who is not and also we can all become friends. Please feel free to reach out to me anytime. Gia Kapoor
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