Take skydiving for example.  I've met people who love it, and the incidence of accidents is very low; but you'd never catch me doing it.

I, on the other hand, love to meet gals and pay them money to have sex with me.  I could get arrested someday I suppose, and that would be a terrible bummer, but it doesn't worry me.

We each have our own phobias, and there is no use trying to deny them.

Try skydiving and see if that's your poison.

...to be on the lookout for LE.  It's the complacent guys who get busted.  Of course, once you've determined she's OK, you have to learn to relax and enjoy her company.

I still get some occasional jitters especially if I am seeing a new provider and certain locations can also make me a little nervous.

I know the threat will always be there.  I have seen two or three providers,  And each time I've felt paranoid that there will be law enforcement waiting for me.  It seems alot of people don't have that problem or the feeling is less intense.  Can someone offer some advice or tips that would lessen this feeling?

Let's say you spend the night in a city jail, before anybody can bail you out.  Big deal.  Haven't you ever gone camping?  there are cots and bunkbeds in jail.  Maybe a few drunks, puking in the hold tank, but that takes the heat off you.  If you were a guard, would you hit the belligerent guy that was puking with your stick, or the innocuous, sweet tempered john?

maybe it's the weekend and they move you to county because they can't process bail on weekends.  Okay, it's not that different from real life.  There's a pecking order, you can get descent drugs, WTF.  NO BIG DEAL, dude.  open toilets in cells really stink, though.

No wonder LE is demoralized, there is no real punishment for crime.  Okay, feel better?  go get 'em!

the best words from the movie Risky Business was WTF! make your move.

as a million people on this board have said, visit well reviewed providers but there is always the chance, and honestly i'm guessing there's more than myself that love the risk as well as the reward.

study your lines and rehearse your 5th amendment rights to minimize your chance if caught. Know a good attorney, preferably one who knows the judge.

you're doing something illegal, so whether it's speeding or spending quality time with a member of the opposite sex, remember there can be consequences.

Find a lady you like, and stick with her. Especially if she is low volume.

I've done this a lot and every single time I get stressed out about LE and LE alone when meeting an independent gal for the first time. Outside of LE, I feel very equiped to handle anything else that could happen.

To answer your question about what can you do to feel better about it, one answer is to pick an agency you feel comfortable with (you could post this request on your local board and I'm sure the guys will give you some very good feedback) and spend time with the gals there. Most agencys have a decent selection and there are always new gals coming on board so you wont run out of variety.

The first dozen or so times I did this, it was with independents. I didn't like the idea of giving out too much information for the screening process so I wasn't going to get with an agency, but now that I am using one it makes things a lot easier. For me, I don't think there is any real fear of LE because I've used the agency a dozen times with no trouble at all. They (at my request) even call me when a new gal starts, which is something I appreciate.

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is a good analogy. I like the nervous energy I feel just before meeting a new provider for the first time. It gets the heart pounding and the adrenalin flowing. That's half the fun!