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I'm afraid I was a bad example regarding the SO finding out....
mrfisher 112 Reviews 723 reads
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I got too cocky and did not cover my tracks well.  My wife caught me twice and the next stop was divorce court followed by a trip to the bank to sign over lot of $ to her.

Be ultra careful if you don't want to get caught.  It's more expensive than dealing with LE.

On the other hand, I'm very happily divorced right not, just not as wealthy as before.

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Your suggestions/replies are very Important to newbie like me
Here are some of the newbie questions!
Newbies are nervous scared terrified excited etc etc before started hobbling!
1. Very important question is hobbying without screwing normal life?How do you hide from SO? What happened if get caught! Good and bad examples appreciated!
Do you use alternate email!
Do any of the SO knows such a terminology hobbying?There is axwebsite like TER? My next question in next thread!

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I got too cocky and did not cover my tracks well.  My wife caught me twice and the next stop was divorce court followed by a trip to the bank to sign over lot of $ to her.

Be ultra careful if you don't want to get caught.  It's more expensive than dealing with LE.

On the other hand, I'm very happily divorced right not, just not as wealthy as before.

My simple precautions were a seperate hobby phone that's pay as I go, stays in my car and is registered at 1060 w addison st in chicago (wrigley field)

Seperate gmail account under an alias (actually it's under my boss's name because he's a dick and I found that funny)

And of course have a good story to account for your time.

But no matter what you do there's a decent chance your SO isn't an idiot, and will suspect something. In my case the relationship ended for other reasons than being caught, but she suspected something because I was happier than usual, went through all my e-mail and phone records, never found the hobby stuff.

Now I hobby just because it's fun. Still have the e-mail and hobby phone, just don't have to make up stories anymore.

There is no reward without risk, you can minimize the risk by not being stupid. And only you can determine if the reward is worth it.



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