Hello,

There is a lady I've wanted to see for about a two years but she only does outcall.  I have a policy of no ladies to my house.  I'm not hiding anything just not comfortable with a lady comming to my house.  With that said I'm going to rent a hotel room for the event.  Any advise on renting a hotel?  Just really concerned about check in and they see I'm local when reviewing my drivers licence.  I havn't booked yet but just thinking ahead.

They're making money off you. I have done it many times. Hotels here actually offer residents discount rates, so I pay less than tourists.

Your hotel shouldn't even bat an eye, but if you are worried or if they are nosy and ask, just come up with a story ahead of time.  

Your house is being fumigated.

You have a meeting with business clients and can't host them at your home or office.

Your elderly parents are visiting next month and you want to check out the hotel first hand before putting them up there.

Your wife kicked you out of the house.

You just need a room to see a prostitute.

If you're ballsy enough to use the last reason, I bet you get nothing more than a chuckle (or maybe a red face) out of the front desk clerk.

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Do not pay by credit card, pay cash. Don't want any charges that anyone could view later.

They really don't pay all of that much attention if you are local. If you are married, might want to get a hotel that is not close by (where someone can see your car or you going in and out).

What I do when going to outcalls at hotels, is ask that you would let me in on a side door if possible and I also try to leave from a side door. I prefer not going through the lobby (or if I do, not twice in a short period of time lol). Ever gal is different, I just think my way is not as much attention.

Just "off the top" suggestions... to start you off.

I take it you are seeing a well reviewed gal? Lessens any potential problems.

you tell them you want NOTHING sent in the mail to your house. Other than that, they don't give a shit about why you are there in most cases.

Thanks for the input it helped me relax.  I feel fine about the lady because she's well reviewed. This time I get to hide behind the door.

just book the room and have fun..they could care less why you are there..i always meet the lady in the hotel bar for a cocktail..you both feel more comfortable and seem to fit right in before you put it in..no need to hide behind a door..

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And a full bush.  Very sexy

Cheap hotels that are located near "the track" in many cities may very well care, if they have been approached by local LE about "trafficked girls."  

Surprisingly or not, this is happening more and more, and many hotels decide to cooperate and end up becoming a bit of an extension of LE, if you will.   It completely depends on the area, so there is no real rule of thumb to use in identifying such places

Just say your house is being fumigated.

you go to checkout, tell them you would prefer to pay the room charges in cash and they should accomodate you.  No need to give a reason.

Rarely have I ever been asked to show ID when checking in.

Prolly more than half of the people usin hotels are people seein hookers, up to no good in general or have an affair sme kind. I bet the percentage people actually vacationing or on business is a smaller percentage. They def don't care about a guy get a room to have one visitor,  
Maybe if u r a guy gets a room n have ten visitors they may suspect your up to no good. They totally aren't gonna care a random guy gets room to fuck a girl. That's prolly like more than half the people there on daily basis.

A lot people go get a room to party on when they r about to die.   If you think back to all famous music n stars whom do in hotels. I myself lived Ina hotel on rt one  for a few months one summer n there was one death up hall In a room some one a lot people I know knew.  
Whitney Houston, I believe the old singer of stp. A lot rock stars have their final hurrahs in hotel rooms. As well
Hotels definitely attract people on the outs as well as men have affairs n women, ...the amount of sketch goin on behind all the doors in one hotel of we only knew.  
But I would say if I were you. If the woman has say three pages rave reviews, spanning over several years. Why not personally email a few the guys with thirty plus reviews whom have met w her, n ask about her character.  
 Surely a man who s met with over thirty escorts can tell u of she s solid or not n if you'd maybe save the xtra hundred to tip her with n just have her to the house,  
I know for me I never snoop thru guys things or touch their things . Never steal.  
I also am quite the space cadet n even if I tried I am unble to be organized enough to keep
 Track of addresses n names n do anything vindictive.  
I d rather have the xtra cash as a tip n go to the mans home.  
I realize u can't trust many people these days but maybe if you'd see if she trust worthy n use your place n save the Benjamin to tip her with,  
I mean if she's met with tons n has all good reviews I am sure she isn't casin people at this point,

nosey neighbors, or roommate (housemate) this is not an option.  Staying stealth is of utmost importance.

I think lots of guys meet their lovers at hotels...

Agreed. I have never visited a client's personal home...ever, and I never will. It's simply too close for comfort. I might be fkin their husbands for money, but I am not going to do it in the very bed the wife sleeps in at night. Fail.  

Add to that, more sinister behavior always happens in a personal space vs. a hotel. Many guys and gals up to no good usually don't want to do such things in a public place where someone can hear a scream. Even Real Estate Agents are now working in twos because many have been raped or assaulted whilst showing a home alone. There are also cameras and GUNS in a personal home, which are a bit more complicated to sneak into a hotel room. My life is worth more than saving a few bucks on a hotel room.

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Omg good point .

 
Seriously?  You want a nice hotel room that you can pay in cash and no ID, yea good luck with that.  Even the nicest hotel that takes cash requires a CREDIT CARD on file...

I said "do not PAY by CC". Having it on file and paying are two different things. Paying for it leaves a paper trail.  

Of course he has to use an ID, I don't know of a place that doesn't require it. Never said not to use a DL/ID.  

So not sure why you responded to me like that on things I didn't say. I didn't say either of those things!

This guy raised no suspicions whatsoever LOL

There has been some inaccurate (or not quite accurate) information posted here.  

This is how you do it if you are concerned about getting a hotel near home or anywhere, really. Most of this applies to a hotel in any location.  

First of all, yes, you do need your ID. Some up-thread said  he had rarely been asked. Disregard that. You will need picture ID. Don't be concerned about this; the staff is just following their industry standards.  No one is keeping it and they will not copy it. I have not ever not been asked for ID.  

If you are concerned about a paper trail, see the post up there about booking online. You can do a few different ways, depending on your level of comfort.  

Book online using your regular credit card with one of the services like hotels dot com or price line or through the hotel directly. You need a real bank card to book via the hotel.  

(2) Book online using your own information (do not ever tell fibs about who is checking in because they do check this stuff), but use a gift card (Visa, AmEx, these are all available in many retail stores, from drug stores to grocery stores, and other places); when you get to the hotel, you will show them your ID and use your real bank credit card for incidentals. You just do not charge anything to the room or you pay cash.

In my experience, paying cash is okay every so often and depending on the property, the city, etc. To do that, you would need to book thorugh the hotel website itself (price line, etc, requires a card and charges it immediately--and it's almost always nonrefundable); let them know when you check in that you will allow them to put a hold on your card until you check out, but that you will be paying cash. Double check that they understand you are going to pay cash. Yes, they do screw up sometimes.  

Now, think that over ... you are asking them to rent you a room in a town you live in, and that you will be paying cash. That can raise eyebrows in some places. Why would it not?  

If you are hell bent on not having a trail of any sort, use one of the hotel services (hotels dot com, price line, etc) and pay with a Visa gift card.  Have your ID ready to show them along with a regular bank visa or major credit card. Keep in mind that these prepaid credit cards usually have a limit of $500. Your real visa card will not be charged if you do not charge anything to the room.  

No need to go into tremendous detail about why you are there. The reasons given above, except  for the  last one, are fine. You don't want to joke around about this sort of activity because you do not know just how much training any of the staff at any given hotel have had.  And it's just a stupid thing to say. You need to work somewhere quietly while work is being done in your home. End of story.

FYI there are some hotels that have policies about renting to locals. I noticed when I was staying a place a few hundred miles from home: no rooms for anyone who lived within fifty miles. It all depends on the hotel, its management at that particular property, the corporate policies,  etc. These are different everywhere.

For a gentleman booking one room for one night, seeing one lady, things should go just fine. Decide how you are going to pay for the room, show up with ID, be polite, low key, and respectful. Don't forget to carry some sort of baggage with you, even if you are not spending the night.  

Now that I've typed that out, do some of you have a bit of insight into what it is like for us, when we travel and book in calls? It's stressful, trust me. We have to manage a lot of things. This one, hotels, is but one of them. Also note that often we cannot get our money back for reservations. Don't cancel late; you can wind up costing us money. There is a whole lot that goes into what any touring lady does, and the hotels are just part of it.