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I would avoid the term "hang with"
popeyebobbi 1 Reviews 1978 reads
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1 / 9

Hi, I signed up for this site to have a community behind me, which I intend to take advantage of and asking every question possible!  So thank you in advance for your time!

Long story short, I've never hired a professional nor have I been to a rub and tug, though I live in Manhattan so it is very easy.  My thinking is, as Charlie Sheen said, he pays professionals to leave.  That is what I'd like now because I am just going through a divorce.

So my first question is, how do you know who is reliable and if the reviews are fake, like yelp and all other sites?

Second is my thinking is if ever I hired a professional, I would want to hire a pornstar. There are some pornstars that I would really want to hang with.  I've included some below.  So the question is, how does that work?  I mean there are some famous pornstars that you can find on the escort sites.

And lastly, has anyone every tried to book a porn star directly from the modeling agency?  I have a few emails into them now.

I'm booking a backelor party in Miami Jan 7-9.  I would rather fly in some porn stars that just have someone local.  Please let me know what you guys think.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 456 reads
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2 / 9

if the reviews are legit are not is to see if they are from legitimate hobbyists.

Click on the reviewer's handle to see his review history.. If he has decent review history then the provider's reviews are legit. The lady with fake reviews typically expose themselves after a few reviews, when some legit hobbyist decides to see them and is disappointed

As far as porn stars are concerned, you can just do a search on the New York AD board for the term "Porn Star". I did the following search for last 30 days and came up with about 10 results.

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 387 reads
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3 / 9

However, if you are bent on hiring pornstars, you better have some deep pockets, they don't come cheap.  Secondly, I don't see the list of pornstars you referred to in your post.  I have seen a couple retired ones, one of whom is an active member here.  I booked with them directly as they are both indies.  I have never used a PS booking service as most of those girls are way out of my price range, so I can't help you there.

As far as reliability goes, look for those with numerous reviews by established reviewers.  The more reviews she has, and the more reviews each writer has, the higher the likelihood is of her being legit.  You have to take the time and do the research, there is no substitute for it.  Check the phone number, validate the pics, check her website, if she has one.  PM some of the reviewers.

Swim

fallonkelly See my TER Reviews 407 reads
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4 / 9

It sounds ghetto and it sounds like you want to get all buddy buddy. Some girls may be up for that after they get to know you, but it may scare the majority away because that phrase is associated with expecting free time.

good luck to you!

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hiddenhills 143 Reviews 439 reads
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5 / 9

Have you looked at the Porn Star board? use the  ter general boards  drop down to locate.  For porn stars you can now check the regional ad board under "porn star" it's toward the bottom on the right hadn column.  Two agencies that are legit are PamelaPeaks and TLC. You'll need to have references so get your ducks in a row by joining the screening services p411 or date check.

I would NOT hire a ps as my first experience. You should see a well reviewed "newbie friendly" privder to start. Starting with a PS is like your first car being a Porsche. Read this board, many first time experiences are diminished by nerves and lack of performance due to the cover. Many newbies coming out of a marriage haven't used a condom in a long time and it can create issues.  . A newbie friendly escort will guide you in a much better way.

I'd go with local talent, many escorts have GFs they work with for parties. Can you post on the local FL board, but since your new you may not get many replies.  Flying girls in means, paying all expenses, and usually requires a deposit. This is not the way to go for a newb.

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Posted By: popeyebobbi
Hi, I signed up for this site to have a community behind me, which I intend to take advantage of and asking every question possible!  So thank you in advance for your time!

Long story short, I've never hired a professional nor have I been to a rub and tug, though I live in Manhattan so it is very easy.  My thinking is, as Charlie Sheen said, he pays professionals to leave.  That is what I'd like now because I am just going through a divorce.

So my first question is, how do you know who is reliable and if the reviews are fake, like yelp and all other sites?

Second is my thinking is if ever I hired a professional, I would want to hire a pornstar. There are some pornstars that I would really want to hang with.  I've included some below.  So the question is, how does that work?  I mean there are some famous pornstars that you can find on the escort sites.

And lastly, has anyone every tried to book a porn star directly from the modeling agency?  I have a few emails into them now.

I'm booking a backelor party in Miami Jan 7-9.  I would rather fly in some porn stars that just have someone local.  Please let me know what you guys think.
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swimtrekr 59 Reviews 380 reads
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6 / 9

No provider, pornstar or not, is looking for someone to 'hang with'.  They are looking for clients.  However, if the OP just wants to pay them for their time and just talk, it's his money, right?  LOL  Can't say I would do that with any provider.

Swim

crazyshit 292 reads
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7 / 9

1.  Get VIP membership.  The whole idea behind this site is a database that tells you information about different girls.  Just like with any reviewer, you gotta figure out whether that reviewer is real or not.  With VIP, you can research the reviewer and see who else he has seen.  And you can also PM him to get more information.

2.  I don't agree with the pornstar thing.  What defines a pornstar?  Are you talking a girl who is signed to Vivid or Digital Underground?  Or are you talking about some girl who has been boned for some website?  Because there is a bodyrub provider in Manhattan that has been prominently featured on the web in some amateurish porn, and I'm not sure if you could call her a pornstar.

3.  If you want a pornstar, there are agencies that book pornstars.

impposter 49 Reviews 252 reads
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8 / 9

I've never seen a PS or have that desire but I've read many reviews. What people report in their reviews is not always what you see in the movies. Some traveling PS don't even offer BBBJ. Many don't do CIM. I think the PS thing is probably more for fans who want to meet the PS and have something to think about during the next DVD viewing. In your case, maybe you want to impress the party-goers with someone "famous" (with videos and a website).

However, I agree with others. If you want real entertainment for the party-goers, there is so much local talent in NYC that staying local is probably your best bet.

By the way, can I come to the party?

impposter 49 Reviews 284 reads
posted
9 / 9

Oops.  Your party is not in NY but in Miami from Jan 7-9.  I can't make it that week, so forget about inviting me.  But the same argument applies: It's probably better to use local talent.  Ask for advice on the Miami Board?

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