you send them a quick TM or PM thanking them for a wonderful session?

I've sent a few providers a quick Text Message after a session thanking them and w/o being explicit letting them know that I really had a good time.  But I never get a response back.  Should I continue? Is this considered out of line?

It is not out of line. So ladies will respond so will not.  I you include the desire to book another appointment with them, they will all respond.

I personally love to get something like that on my phone/ email.  And always respond back.  

XoXO

Lina

to thank her for her delightful company. Sometimes she beats me to it! But if not I always receive a thank you in reply. Of course this may have something to do with the type of ladies I choose to see regularly.....

I love it when I get an email afterwards at some point letting me know they had a great time. Its all well and good when they say they enjoyed it before they leave, but to actually take the time to email me later on means more. I think its a nice gesture.

to my lady friends, even if I know that it was a one time thing....

And for those you know you want to see again, it keeps the fires burning....

And I usually get a response back, although one of my ATFs sometimes does respond....

But I can't get enough of her, so it's a minor thing....

RM

That way she can deal with the message when she is sitting down and looking at email.

A Text Message indicates something that needs to be responded to immediately.  An email is something more relaxed.

I usually send an e-mail expressing appreciation to the lady for our time together, sometimes I get a reply sometimes I don't.

There are some ladies that I see, that beat me to it, before I get home and get on the puter, they have already e-mailed me thanking me for seeing them, and hoping I will return. I uusually do!

There is nothing wrong with sending a thank you, just don't over do and keep filling up their inbox, they are very busy.

Jim

And I will return the favor.

XO  

We love it.  Nice to have the feedback and we are women after all...

All the talk of this being a business, you would think that a provider would thank the customer for their business.  Happens in the real world, I wouldnt think of not "thanking" my customers.  I am a second time newbie, but not new to the world.  All the talk of tough economy yet both of my "thanks for the great time" e-mails have gone un answered.  Never recieved one from them nor a response to mine.  However when I messaged that I might like to see them again, yep, got a quick answer, how great that would be.  Come on ladies at least fake the thank you's  Keep the fantasy alive. Congrats if you are too busy to take a moment to say thanks.

Maybe they don't either?  Maybe they don't check PM's much?  Maybe they don't want to text back thinking that there is no need to reply and are erring on the side of caution with their contacts?  I'd reply, if I got the message!  It's always nice to know that you enjoyed your time.
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It's not out of line at all.

makes me feel happy that I made the client happy. (:


You may have worded it in a way that made no response necessary. I don't know how that would be out of line at all though.

I generally do send a "thank you for a great time" email.  If I hope to see her again, I say so.  Most of the time, I don't get a reply.  I know a lady's time is valueable & lots of guys waste their time.  Some choose to limit the relationship for our emotional well being as well as theirs.  
I still write a thankyou.
skb

I think that most would find it very thoughtful. I don't have sms but an email or pm is always nice. Perhaps you did not get a response because they don't use sms as well.

I always love to hear back from the gentlemen.Its ver nice of them to still have me on there mind...
michele'

YOU GOT one e mail just Now LOL!!

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I had 2 appointments with the same lady while I was in D.C. on a weekend.  I gave her my card with dates on the next time I was coming to town.  I did this so she could clear her schedule for me ahead of time.  I wrote her an email to thank her and say what a wonderful time I had.  She didnt send one back.  Some do and some dont......I will see her next time no doubt

I love it also...and do respond in kind, with a smile.

I think you are placing yourself in a wonderful light to have the courtesy and class to do something that sweet!! Keep it up and you will be rewarded at some point!