Newbie - FAQ

I used to entertain quite a bit
aupair 52 Reviews 2132 reads
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So what would be better? do you guys have any opinions?

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 1277 reads
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If you are doing an outcall to your home. Make sure you know the lady or she is VERY well reviewed. Some guys will say they've done outcalls to their home and never had a problem.
You can do a search on this topic, however, I'm sure you can imagine all the things that might go wrong if you invite a complete stranger into your home. For me, outcalls to my home are only for my atf, otherwise I'm an incall kinda guy.
Good luck

mrfisher 115 Reviews 1557 reads
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Unless you live alone, inviting a gal over to your house subjects you to other risks:

She leaves behind some evidence.  (Strands of hair, a lipstick smudge, etc.)

A neighbor notices and mentions to your wife that a strange gal was over at the house.

Vibes!  (My ex once picked up on them, believe it or not!)

So, for the $75 or so it costs to get a 3 star room at a Holiday Inn Express from Priceline, don't risk a divorce or getting ripped off at your house.

If you live alone and know the provider well, then there's nothing like home court advantage.

shudaknownbetter 667 reads
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If you are married, NEVER have another woman to your house.  It is just plain disrespectful, dangerous, plaing with fire.

If you are living alone, do not have a provider over to your house on the first meeting.  If you have met her before then maybe...  but remember you are revealing way more information about yourself just by having this person to your home.

Unless you are traveling, I'd suggest going to her IN call.  Cost is usually a bit less, room is in her name.

Do NOT leave a provider is possesion of a room you have rented.  YOU are responsible for anything which goes on there even after you leave.  Damages, mini-bar, room service can show up on your credit card that you used to guarentee the room (even if you have paid the room rental in cash).  If necessary, have the lady rent the room & you reimburse her.  

Best Wishes,
skb

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 925 reads
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I would do it in my home with one or two ladies that I have seen for years and trust but that's only because I am single now.  I would never have a total stranger to my home reviewed or not.

vegaswrangler 1182 reads
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at my apartment in Manhattan. I loved being in the comfort of my own space and also being able to control the environment. I only dealt with really high end providers and spoke with them at length. I also made sure they were well known. After meeting I always went down with them and ensured they had a car service or a cab. I never just sent them down the elevator for security reasons I saw them out the door. I would never ever ever invite a random provider over to scope out my pad and possibly cause issues for me in the future.

shudaknownbetter 873 reads
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My ex-w on second date...  no, nothing happened...  but I found out (when we divorced) that she'd been through my desk & bank information while I was in the bathroom that visit.  Her daughter told me after the divorce.  
skb

HDDOC96 13 Reviews 1003 reads
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Only have a ATF or at least a well reviewed lady over you have seen before at least a few times.  And remember to lock your shit up.  Other rooms closed, extra money in safe, wallet in safe, etc.
remove any temptation or source of a problem.  This goes for any stranger in your home IMHO.

I did have a $100 bill fallout of my shirt pocket into her purse once that I had left out for a tip but she gave it back. I had not even noticed.  Of course i gave it back to her( True Story)

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