Totally bummed lately that ladies in the area aren't who they say they are.  Extremely disappointing.   It would be great to actually find a regular provider who actually is who they say or post they are

But it's nomally a product of where you are doing your shopping. Well reviewed ladies who advertise on TER and P411 or the other verification sites are seldom bait and switch.

A big problem!

Some photos are old. some are not even pics of the provider. Some photos are artfully posed, airbrushed and photoshopped to remove tattoos, scars, stretch marks and wrinkles. Misstatement of their actual age by providers is rampant, as is misstatement of weight.

One of the problems are reviews that overstate the providers actual attributes, such as "grade inflation" in the school system.  

Most guys out there can find a slightly overweight woman approaching middle age with stretch marks and no muscle tone for free any time they like.  Many hobbyists are already married to a woman whose idea of sex is laying there and watching the ceiling fan go around.  

There is nothing worse than booking with a woman who has misled you into thinking she is youthful, slender, tight bodied and enthusiastic only to meet your "date" and discovering she is actually what is described in the preceding paragraph.

Good reviews are important, but as stated, are often overinflated for whatever reason. Still, searching for well reviewed ladies with current pics is a good start. And if the price is low, it is likely the quality of the girl is low, too.

If her photos were stolen from elsewhere, those services will expose that fact and you'll be able to cross that one off your list.

And I forgot to add that a number of providers are simply unreliable. They make a date and then either show up way, way late or simply don't show up at all. Canceling you on short notice is also common, as is the "upsell" once they get in the door.

You must understand that you are not dealing with the upper crust of the female species. Sure, there are lots of ladies who do not misrepresent themselves, do their best to show you a good time and act professionally both before and during the encounter. But many are either desperate financially, addicts or a little nutty. When a woman has sex with a man, she is opening herself up to him, exposing the most vulnerable part of herself and is literally taking him inside of her in a way that is usually reserved for those that she has a deep and intimate connection with. A provider, on the other hand, opens her legs to a total stranger for an hour and allows herself to be penetrated by that stranger out of nothing more than a desire for money. That mindset on her behalf speaks volumes. Let the buyer beware!

Prefer.. I understand where you are coming from.. but wowdo you have to work on your view of the women we work with in this hobby.. everyone deserves respect..Namaste..

....receive e-mails from gentlemen asking me if I was at "xyz restaurant" the night before!  

   I believe that many ladies do represent themselves honestly, but the few that don't, are so far off base, that they will, of course disappoint.  Your other option is to walk away.  If you walked into a Jaguar dealership, and were shown a Honda, would you still buy it?

   All the best in the future.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kell

7 years ago. Things are different now with much more intell at a guys disposal.

you are finding providers.  Look everywhere, but you've got to do the research.  Check pics, phone number, reviews, and more.  There are plenty of threads about this on this forum.

Swim

Every other comment was an insult. You sir think too highly of yourself and down at us, the providers. Remember its a two way street. I can't imagine you get anything more than instant gratification and are missing out on the wonderful qualities many providers do have.  

I could say more but I don't think you will "get it" so its just a waste of time.

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Oh and I forgot. In response to this "you are not dealing with the upper crust of the female species. Sure, there are lots of ladies who do not misrepresent themselves, do their best to show you a good time and act professionally both before and during the encounter. But many are either desperate financially, addicts or a little nutty."

I am one of the upper crust, don't misrepresent myself, am not desperate financially (had a corp career), not an addict, nor am I nutty!

It was on the general board a few months back. Same dumb ass, same review in Miami from 2005. Duh...

And that method of thinking, is the problem sir. The most vulnerable part of a women is not her "lady parts", but her mind and her heart. Sex and what is "intimate" are two different things completely…past the age of 21, most realize and recognize this. Hence, providers have found a way to make money doing something they enjoy, whilst also meeting some very interesting people in the process, many of whom become friends on a certain level. Men have been having sex with multiple women (spreading their seed) for hundreds of years, and there was never a stigma associated with that…sorry to tell ya, but women have just as much right to have sex for sport/fun as men do…and many do end up meeting that "someone special"(or already have), and THAT person will capture their mind and heart..hence the "deep and intimate connection" you are speaking of.