I am new to this game.  I am 34, single mom, with a college degree in the Orlando area.  I have a very beautiful face, amazing breasts and pink everywhere else.  I have been considering this type of work for some time now and have finally decided to take the plunge.  However, I am a little curious and concerned because I am a BBW (or what most men would consider a BBW) and I just want to know if there are any men on this site that could comment maybe about their experiences with BBWs and also if there are any providers that would be willing to comment on their experiences as a working BBW.  Is there a demand for us BBWs, can we make the same as some skinny hot chicks...etc?  and what kind of services do men like to generally receive from BBWs?

Thanks ladies and gents!

But seriously, many of my favorites are BBWs, and as long as you have a great personality and make sure your clients are totally pleased, you should do well.

Welcome to TER.

I don`t partake myself so I am not talking first hand, and hopefully some guys that do see BBWs and some BBW providers will come in and answer some of your questions. However I do know from reading reviews and participating on boards that there are some BBW providers in TER land that do very well, and there are guys who seek out their services. I think the most important thing is to be honest (which you are doing here) Present yourself as who you are, provide accurate pictures, and provide a good service at a fair rate, and there is a market for you. The worst thing is to try to pass yourself off as something you are not (i.e. a large woman trying to pass herself off as skinny by using fake pictures, or really old pictures or things like that, then someone books her, and when the door opens, it is either a big disppointment, or downright anger, for the client). Sounds like you have no intention of being dishonest.

As far as rates, you will not be able to command the same rates as the model types, but if you provide good service and make the gentlemen happy, you can get a fair rate.

While you are here, I would suggest reading the self help center, where you can find a lot of good information about the hobby and TER. (not about BBW, but general info that can help you in your business) and also read back a bunch of pages on this newbie board, where you can find lots of questions and answers about things like screening, and all sorts of other newbie questions.

Good Luck and welcome to TER.

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Perfectstorm can be a real dick sometimes, and nobody around here really likes him much, but his advice to you is pretty good (even a blind squirrel finds an acorn now and then). The only thing that I would somewhat disagree with him on is, don't sell yourself short. It MAY be true that you are not going to command absolute top dollar like Victoria's Secret model, but there are plenty of larger ladies making a good hourly rate and doing very well.

You don't say what area you are in, but search here on TER and find some ladies who are your shape and size and see what they are doing. Some ladies are VERY willing to take a new girl into their confidence, and can be a huge help. Of course, some are less giving and might even see you as a competitor, so just tread lightly.

The biggest piece of advice I would give you is that you are going to have to develop a thick skin. There are going to be those hobbyists who are viciously insulting to any lady bigger than a size 10. The review parameters here on TER offer only insulting descriptions for larger ladies (build choices: average, skinny, thin, athletic, very muscular, baby fat, flabby, heavy, very fat, other) So if you see a guy, even if he likes you very much, he's going to be forced to describe you as "baby fat, flabby, heavy, or very fat". I suppose we could just always choose other, but whatever.

There are many many women of all different shapes and sizes here, and many men who appreciate curvy women of all shapes and sizes. Good luck, and welcome!

PS - perfectstorm will come up with some scathing reply, it just illustrates how petty he is

I would rather see a BBW with a great attitude and willing to please than a 19 year old ditzy inexperienced hot blonde spinner ANY DAY. Too many times Ive gambled on looks alone and its never worth it. Don't sell yourself short. I saw a BBW last night, was one of the best experiences I've ever had, her oral skills were incredible an she went out of her way to make me happy.

Perfect storm gives good advice to you.  I would also recommend stipulating that you will only see clients over 30. Older gents tend to be more appreciative of personality over looks.  

I like all shapes  sizes and nationalities. And there are plenty of guys who have the same outlook on hobbying. There are three ladies that I can think of  in LA (of all places) that do very well  that are bbw. Also a bbw provider in Phoenix who not only providers but has done porn, she even used to tour and has probably 60 to 70 ter  very good reviews. And yes I've seen 2 out of the 4 and had a great time.

(Not that there's anything wrong with that)

Sorry that's the best I could do for a scathing reply. And thanks for "clarifying" (not disagreeing with) my point on rates. That is what I really meant to say

I was with you on the build descriptions too on the S&P thread a few months back. The terms could definitely be improved.

ps. Here's the scathing reply: What are you blind?? What do you mean she didn't say what area she's from? Read her OP again. Second sentence ("in the Orlando area").


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squirrel!

not everyone goes for the skinny model type.  I like something to hold onto while riding doggie.  would suggest that you learn to give a top notch bj (preferably bb with cim) as that is what most guys want and is hard to find

....and basically I'll agree with what the guys have said.  I do very well (just check out my reviews - both the quantity and the quality), and my weight has fluctuated quite a bit over the last 3 years.  I'm currently the smallest I've ever been as Natasha, but I'm still about a size 16 (sometimes 14 -- you know how fickle women's sizing is - lol).  

The most important thing is to not misrepresent yourself.  The girls who purposefully hide their real size are the ones who get ripped the most.   By all means, use flattering pics (as everyone should!), but don't try to pretend that you're something you're not.  Self confidence goes a LONG way (both in the hobby and in real life!)!!!

Sure, there are guys who won't see you because you're bigger.  But there are also plenty of men who will see you BECAUSE you're bigger.  I would suggest not limiting what races you'll see -- many minorities (black, Latino, Middle Eastern and Asian Indian, in particular) are the ones who like the BBWs the most.  There is a real cultural difference between them and many white guys.  And of course, there are LOTS of men like mrfisher who like all types of women.



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Thanks for your honesty...I appreciate all types of constructive criticism.

Thanks for the insight.  Everyone is entitled to their opinions just as long as they have some educated response that can be taken as "constructive" criticism.  I don't mind being described as any of those terms as long as the review is taken into account as a whole.  I definitely intend to be completely honest about my size, shape, and figure.  I can't imagine how a guy must feel walking into a situation thinking he is about to pay a girl that he is attracted to just from what he sees online, and then come to find out, her pictures are over 7 years old.  Thank the lord for websites like this one.  Definitely makes me feel somewhat safer.

LOL...now now boys...behave!!!

Thanks so much for your response Natasha!  I truly appreciate your guidance!  Why is it that I have seen so many ads where the provider says "No Black Men"???  Is it the stereotype of their "size"???

For God's sake, don't ever bring it up on the General Board, you'll get ripped to shreds

There are many possible reason - some that have been discussed:

-simple racial prejudice
-the girl has a black pimp or boyfriend
-some white men don't want to be with girls who see black men (their own prejudice) so some girls will claim not to see black men.
-some girls believe that black men are more likely to haggle or rip off
-subject of a recent looong thread on general, a girl was raped by a black man and can't handle seeing black men.

and so on

First off, be honest.  You don't have to print BBW but your pictures should be recent & a fair representation of your body.  If you hide (say) your tummy, then guys will think the worst or be pissed at the deception.  That will hurt you.  
Lets be honest for a second.  Breasts are mostly "fatty tissue".  If a gal is well padded, she more likely to have 100% real big boobs.  So it that's important to a guy, it's a plus.
I married a BBW.  It didn't work but not because of her size.  
DO your best to stay in shape.  It's not easy if you are working in a room all day...

My approach is that EVERYONE must be screened, regardless of race, but as long as they screen well, then there are no problems.  

I've been robbed / ripped off 3 times as Natasha - once by a black guy, twice by white guys.  The black guy was before I screened well.  The two white guys scammed my screening system (there are some pretty good manipulators out there, and some guys will go to great lengths for free sex - sad, but true).