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Datarule 2038 reads

posted 13 years ago

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I stumble upon this site by accident and decided to be adventurous and join, so I want to take a moment and say hi to all the ladies and other members.

There are so many beautiful ladies on here that I am a little intimated to approach them, which is ironic because I am normally not easily intimated in a social situation and pretty easy to get alone.

As the title suggested I am a first timer and still in my original wrappings. I wonder if there is certain etiquette in approaching a provider, like provide them with my stats or pictures so they know I'm their type? I don't want to come off as rude or insensitive to their taste or feelings.

Wish everyone have a good day

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 657 reads

posted 13 years ago

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You are their "type" if you have the requisite number of Benjamins. (eom)

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macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 619 reads

posted 13 years ago

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newest

better to be intimated rather than intimidated..

Datarule 543 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Re: newest

Posted By: macdaddy1944

better to be intimated rather than intimidated..

Can you recommend some friendly provider, who won't mind my inexperience?

Thank you.

LunaNYC See my TER Reviews 588 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Welcome to the hobby!

1. Be respectful - don't talk or ask about anything suggestive/what she does or doesn't do sexually (just read her reviews!)

2. Don't haggle her prices - if she's too expensive for you either save up or move on.

3. Don't waste her time - if the appointment is for 3:30PM don't show up at 3:15 or 3:40. Also, don't try to overstay unless you plan on paying her for the extra time - you don't know if she has another appointment or just has something else to do.

Good luck & have fun

british_ties 19 Reviews 593 reads

posted 13 years ago

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from one newbie to another

A really great way to break into the hobby is by signing up for a verification site like Preferred411.com or Datecheck.com. These websites require you to submit some personal information; in my case it was my school ID along with proof of my units being taken that semester. This information is discarded once you get verified.

After you get verified it makes scheduling with newbie friendly providers a breeze. The trade-off to this ease of luxury is that these sites have membership fees. If you're willing to pay the fee, I would highly recommend looking into either one of these sites. There are bound to be some providers in your area on either p411 or datecheck that won't mind your inexperience.

You can still book appointments without an account on a verification website, providers have all sorts of different ways of screening their future clients. Send the provider you're considering a respectful, professional email to find out what information you need to disclose for her to book with you.

Posted By: Datarule

Posted By: macdaddy1944

better to be intimated rather than intimidated..

Can you recommend some friendly provider, who won't mind my inexperience?

Thank you.

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Senator.Blutarsky 496 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Good advice...also, read the self help center...link is under the life preserver...

Welcome to both of you and happy mongering.

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 453 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Welcome and I echo

Blutarsky's advice about the self help center. It is packed with helpful information for both hobbyists and providers alike. The verification sites are a good idea too. Preferred411 will work with you to get you verified and the providers on there can indicate if they are newbie friendly which is good for you. If you have any questions about this enterprise of ours, this is the forum to ask them.

Good luck and enjoy!!!

Swim

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 503 reads

posted 13 years ago

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I responded to your OC post & sent you a pm. E

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brilove See my TER Reviews 494 reads

posted 13 years ago

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My type is clean, respectful, and yes Ben Franklins in hand muah eom

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keystonekid 114 Reviews 599 reads

posted 13 years ago

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As a newbie, you will get that "candy store feeling"; lots of hot women to meet. Just . . .

remember, only play with disposable income; do not use the rent, food, etc. money for hobbying.

Treat providers with respect, practice good hygiene and never try to negotiate a lower rate. Think of a provider as your doctor or lawyer, you don't try to negotiate with them do you?

Good luck and enjoy

Datarule 499 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Thank you all for the great advice

I appreciate all the help you've all given me, and appreciate the emails, though I am not a VIP member yet, so please don't be offended if I didn't give it a proper respond.

luvladeez 455 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Which of the verification sites do the providers prefer

P411, Datecheck, etc. Do you have a preference?

lisaluvs See my TER Reviews 549 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Re: Which of the verification sites do the providers prefer

Both preferred 411 and datecheck are great sites. Preferred 411 after you see a lady she can give you an "ok" which serves as a reference. Datecheck after you meet with a lady she can give you either....highly recommend.....recommend...barely recommend...would not see again or danger stay away. So in the description format I prefer datecheck but preferred 411 seems to be easiest to navigate and is full of lovely choices. Oh as an FYI I belong to both and both verified me as a provider. So good to know that gents and ladies alike are verified!! You really can't go wrong with either site.