Any opinions on this? I'm 19 and and pretty antisocial and am a pussy when it comes to talking to women. I kind of want to just have sex to get it over with haha, otherwise it's just going to bother me. For all I know I could die tomorrow. Honestly I have no desire to have a relationship, and I don't think having sex with an escort is anymore shallow than hooking up with a random drunk chick at a party (something I don't want to do).

I'm not worried about "getting wrapped in the lifestyle" or anything like that, considering I don't have the money to do so, and I have a great amount of self control.

I assume it would be a good idea to tell the escort I'm a virgin/my age ahead of time and see if they're ok with it, right?

Most ladies will accomodate, some might even find it a turn on.

Word of advice, you're 19 -- plenty of things to yet experience, civvie life may be more suitable

I mean if that's how you feel go ahead. I've seen 2 virgins myself ^_^ well they aren't anymore haha. And they let me know they were beforehand...it's cool if you want to tell her. She might even take extra extra special care of you.

I just lost my virginity to an escort in vegas a month ago.  Im 21.  It was a great experience and lots of fun. I learned alot. The lady was so helpful. Sex was just not happening to me in the real world. If i were you, I would do it.

I don't see a problem with it personally, but then I don't buy into that "the first time is special" mentality. The only thing special about the first time for a guy is that you've finally done it and you're no longer thinking about your virginity all the time.

and it was a good experience both times.  I took my time and played teacher as well as lover.  

The first guy was big into watdhing porn and he had some bad approaches which I taught him to correct.

 The second guy was so sweet; he was visiting NYC from Oxford University and an older friend had given him my name and number.  

 So I think there are definate advantages in taking this route.  choose someone who seems kind to you and then explain why you are contacting her.
 Happy hunting!  xoClair

I can't think of a reason not to.  Choose a provider a bit older...  an attractive MILF maybe 10 years older than you.  Wiling to teach & take some extra time.
Just don't fall in love with her!
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Yea right now there are two that I have my eye on. One is around my age I think, maybe a few years older, and looks pretty attractive. I might prefer that. Another is like 11 years older and I've read a lot of positive things about them, but they don't show their face in any pictures so I'm kinda hesitant.

I'm now old enough to be your grandfather and then some.  I certainly wish that I'd lost my virginity to an experienced provider before I met my first wife.  If so I doubt she would have become my wife, first or otherwise.

I'm a bit concerned by your admission to being "antisocial," and "a pussy when it comes to talking to women." Finding it difficult to talk to women can involve feeling like the woman has all the power, and hence resentment. You may just be using the term antisocial loosely, and if that's the case ignore what I have to say. The woman you'll be with needs to feel safe, and if she picks up on any hostility from you, things could go very badly. If you are just wanting to pop your cherry, then it might be best to have a VIP membership, read the reviews, and find a lady that has a set routine, and follow her lead. Less chance of misunderstandings. If you are just talking about feeling socially awkward around women, the same advice applies, but you could also go with some of the previous recommendations, regarding seeing a more mature lady who will gladly help you through your first time. Good luck!

Choose your partner wisely and it'll be the experience of a lifetime. I am very much like you in the sense that I don't exactly have a thriving social life especially when it comes to seducing the opposite sex. I went for an older, very experienced, and well reviewed provider and it was an amazing experience. I did mention that I was a virgin beforehand and she made the extra effort of teaching me the intricacies of love making. I did visit her several times afterward and every session was was its own unique learning experience. Its a shame that she seems to have retired and no longer in my city (chicago). Boy I miss her .....anyways Im on the prowl for another provider to visit on a regular basis. If you decide to take this route please report back and share your experience!

By those two things I mean....I'm extremely shy and basically a loner with no friends at this point, don't talk or hang out with anyone, etc. If a girl tries to talk to me I basically clam up and can't hold a conversation in the least bit....there's no resentment though

I was very nerves myself. I thought I would cum in like 30 seconds, but it took more like 20 or 30 minutes. I just had to relax and everything went well. But I still had a good experience and a huge confidence builder.

amen

kudos RR

I see....so what's your decision or are you still on the fence?