I have been at this hobby for about 6 months and have a SO, bringing something home is not an option

I have always insisted on CBJ so far, but really want to take to BBBJ.
How much of a risk am I taking if I stick with a good agency that tests monthly and stay with very well reviewed ladies.

I have read all the newbie links that state that it is very uncommon to catch anything from oral sex, even "if" the provider has something.

Please help

If you know you don't have anything and the agency does constant screening of their employees, then the choice is really up to you. Do you want to risk getting a STD through oral sex or not? If you can't bring anything home then I would recommend caution and no bbbj.

Even still, the likelihood of you getting a STD through oral sex is remote, but still possible. There are many factors that go into getting an STD in the first place. And the biggest one is the STD being present in either party. If you know they get tested and have no STDs, I would recommend that you get tested yourself if you haven't already. Second thing you would have to consider is how the STD is transmitted beyond the obvious intercourse part. You or she would have to have a cut or sore either in the mouth or your manhood plus having an STD for the virus to spread. If she's good with her hygiene and you don't have any cuts or sores you should be good.

Remember that thee are over 10 types of STDs that go undetected for several months before they show up on a STD test. Sometimes it takes the body that long to make the antibodies for the virus which is how they know you have that particular STD. Herpes is a very common orally transmitted disease.

But in the end, it is your choice and ultimately your gamble. So however you chose, remember that you don't want to bring anything home, so chose wisely.

Best of luck,
NewHobbyGuy12 aka Ja

Don't want to scare you dude, but remember that a condom only covers the tip and shaft of your penis.  You may still be very vulnerable to herpes, genital warts, crabs, etc...

I know that the risk is low and that if I am that worried about it I should stick with the cover.
I just wondered what the real risk would be if no visable sores, I am tested to be clean, and the agency does monthly testing on the ladies................is there reason for me to worry? What is the real risk? 1 in 1000? 1 in 10?

To the provider with the inital post.

I am a provider, and I am also a resident physician ( yes, it is true..thank you bad economy.)

I have an extreme knowlege base on this subject.  Everyday we are putting ourselves at risk.  It is never worth it.  Even with a condom there is always some risk, and if we chose as providers to participate in such acts we also take the risk, either high or low.

My suggestion, never do anything with out coverage.

Second, get tested at a minimum monthly. Don't forget to ask for a throat swab!

Third, educate yourself on the subject.  There is a lot of information online.

Although I can admitt that it isn't as exciting or 'fun', with the higher volume of partners it is simply not worth the risk.

I do everything with coverage.

Best wishes to you and everyone out there...

Ella

http://www.medhelp.org/forums/STDs/show/116

great site from rational Dr.

I got chlamydia. Luckily I test monthly and caught it early and it is easily teated with antibiotics. The risk from a BBBJ is less they BBFS but is not safe. In fact condoms are not 100% effective in stopping the spread of anything. There is no such thing as safe sex just safer sex. You must decide how much risk you want to take.

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Any exchange of body fluids puts you at risk, even a kiss. If her hands get wet from the CBJ, and she touches you somewhere else, you can get infected. If,.... if, ...

I'm not saying don't practice safe sex. I'm saying that only abstinence is 100% safe.

Like if I don't get any sex for a while I might decide to do something stupid to get some. Now that is risky!

I need to book an appointment for a prostate exam post-haste!