: Newbie - FAQ Discussion : I feel comfortable

mrfisher 115 Reviews 453 reads

posted 11 years ago

1 / 10

Ah, there is nothing like the home court advantage....

You're in a safe comfortable and familiar setting. You can set up the place just like you want, and you have all your own foods and drinks available as well as your music and videos. Best of all, if gives me an excuse to clean up the crap shack.

8o)

But, listen to Swim and only do it if you are a swinging single like I am. SOs have a keen sense of smell and memory of how every little detail should be and you'll get busted for sure if you invite a gal over while she's off visiting her family or some such thing. If you have busybody neighbors, I'd suggest sneaking the gal in under cover of night. If you have a garage, bring her in via the garage so the neighbors won't blab to the meme-sahib.

One hot cutie just made my day today by suggesting we party at my place this weekend.

I love it.

dirkdoogle 1443 reads

posted 11 years ago

2 / 10

home delivery

Anyone ever have provider over your home? seems all reviews happen in hotel or incall.

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 581 reads

posted 11 years ago

3 / 10

It happens all the time.

However, if you have a SO, or wife, DON'T DO IT!!!!! A woman will know that another woman has been in her house. Don't ask me how, but she will know. If you are single, and have no SO, the only down side is that she will know where you live and so will her friends. It's not a good idea to have a provider come to your home until you have seen her a few times, and established a good deal of trust.

LLAP,
Swim

ROGM 511 reads

posted 11 years ago

4 / 10

Seeing A Provider At Home.

The first few times the provider I'm seeing would not go to my home. But after about a month or so she felt comfortable enough with me to see me at my home.

TaylorSteele 542 reads

posted 11 years ago

5 / 10

Yes, it can be pretty amazing

I've seen some pretty awesome flats, condos, mansions, you name it. Swinging bachelors sure know how to show a lady a good time in the comfort of their own digs. However, if you are planning on this route, deff listen to the above gents. I am a woman, and yes, we know 'everything' LOL.

If you have pets, put them away even for cat and dog lovers until 'after' you meet. Clean up as a first impression of your home is also a first impression of you. If you're home isn't clean, we will assume you aren't either. And it's up to you to make her feel comfortable in every way, shape and form.

Good luck to you,

Taylor

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Dr Who revived 475 reads

posted 11 years ago

6 / 10

Was it just with Gomez?

Or did Morticia get involved?

Did Lurch clean things up nicely?

Sure glad the have a mansion LOL

TaylorSteele 485 reads

posted 11 years ago

7 / 10

Not quite lol

But no hijacking threads on the newbie board. You'll get a spanking...even though I know you'd like it

Did you come out to play with lil ol me even during crunch time for you? Gosh I'm flattered.

And yes, mansions come a dime a dozen in my neck of the woods, but I only visit a few on occasion. I certainly don't own one lol. But I don't think I'd ever actually enter that one...too scary for me lol. And far too big. I like tiny spaces

T xx

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AHappyCamper 9 Reviews 351 reads

posted 11 years ago

8 / 10

I've had several over to my home

I've hosted a number of women at my home, after I've gotten to know them. I avoid it if I've not seen them previously.

The ambiance is much better for extended time together, especially for overnight stays. But as someone has already mentioned, you need to make sure your place is immaculate. She's going to judge you by how you keep your place.

jeffdogger 9 Reviews 380 reads

posted 11 years ago

9 / 10

I feel comfortable

having my favorite provider over, but I did not have her over to my place until I had met with her many times.

But, when I first started seeing her, I was living with my wife. By the time I moved out and got my own place I had been seeing my favorite for five months.

Freya Fantasia See my TER Reviews 336 reads

posted 11 years ago

10 / 10

If you like to drink or party, please don't drive.

A lot of clients who want me to come to their homes like to party, which is fine with me. I don't...but I want my clients to be comfortable.

As long as they have good references, I'm perfectly happy to go to their homes.

I've had clients at my place finish off a bottle of wine and then want to drive! It really scares me. If I see them have two drinks I'll ask them not to have any more (during a short appointment). Even if they are safe to drive, they might get a DUI and screw their lives up. I've asked them to stay and sleep in the other room for a while, but the people who drink too much and want to drive never think they shouldn't, it seems.