I should add that I suffered no ill effects from providers knowing my room number several days before the actual meeting.
Posted By: CuriousNewbie
Now that I have a few incall meetings under my belt, I'm learning all about the "two-call" system, which seems pretty standard: You get an address maybe a day or so before the meeting, and then don't get an apartment or room number until you're physically standing in front of the incall location.
In every other business dealing I do, I always receive the complete location information at the time the meeting is confirmed... whether it's a doctor, lawyer, consulting, or any other kind of interaction. It seems that it would be easier for a provider confirmation to say: "I'm at 123 Main Street. When you get to the address, take the elevator to the 3rd floor and I'm in room 345." Why is this not the standard?
How does this awkward system enhance safety for the provider? For example, I had a meeting with a provider in December, so I learned her apartment number. I just scheduled another meeting with her last week. I've known her apartment number for more than a month, but the meeting didn't go any differently than the last time I saw her. In fact, it was easier, because I didn't have to worry about the horrible cell phone reception in the parking structure and the possibility that I wouldn't receive the text with her apartment number.
If I would think that if I were LE, it wouldn't matter if I discovered the room number 5 minutes or 5 days before the arrest, so it's not clear to me how this system benefits providers.
On the flip side, if there is some elusive reason why a 2-call system is better, should I use it too? I had a couple of provider meetings scheduled over a multi-day trip to Las Vegas recently. As soon as I checked into my hotel, I emailed the providers I had scheduled and told them my room number and hotel. Did this compromise my safety in any way? Was it dumb for me to email a provider my room number on Monday, when my scheduled meeting with her wasn't until Friday?