Ok Ive read alot of reviews here and on another site, on the other site the review has a lick pussy part and touch pussy part. Every provider Im interested in it ALWAYS says NO and NO for both. Is this true with the reviews here and what some other users here have experienced with there "sessions". WHAT is up with this, If your a provider please explain why. What I like to do is eat pussy and touch pussy. Some "regular" women I slept with I would be fine with just eating them out. Don't get me wrong I really like sex too but thing is Im definitely not going to have a good experience If I can't even go down. Im definitely not even gonna think about giving this past time a second chance and paying for anything again. The only time(my first time trying this hobby if u want to call it that) the so called provider allowed it for a VERY short period of time. She had good reviews but for this and other reasons it was a bad experience. AM i looking for PSE , is that whats wrong?

have I run across a lady who didn't allow having her pussy licked. Nearly all of the ladies that I've seen, not only allow it, but seem to love it as well. When I check the reviews, I not only look at the menu, but read the body of the reviews carefully. If she doesn't allow, or there is no mention of her seeming to enjoy it, I will most likely pass.

There are lots of ladies out there just waiting for your tongue. Do your research, and you'll find them.

I cannot imagine refusing DATY but I know some ladies don't do it.  Just remember it's a sensitive area and you may need to follow her cues in your degrees of pressure and speed.  

But yes, what you are looking for is definitely out there!

I can't imagine any woman turng down oral sex but to be on the safe side, read reviews and find a provider who seems to enjoy it.

be prepared to take a little direction, and never be afraid to ask. Ladies ask us, all the time, what we like. Why shouldn't we ask them the same? If I'm doing all I can to see that she is enjoying herself, chances are pretty damned good that I'll be enjoying myself as well.

Every lady is different, with different levels of sensitivity. Asking a simple question is well worth the effort.

she tells you no and she tells you after you've already begun, then id take a long, impartial, cold, hard look at what you are doing.

It's possible you got a provider on a bad day and she just wasn't into it but the more likely story is, it's something your doing that is making her back off having your face in her pussy.

I dont say this to be mean, and i know all hobbyists think they are the pussy eating champs but it looks like from your posting you have a on going problem with providers who are reviewed for this turning you down. Not a one time issue.

If you're the constant.. then the problem is likely you.

it's easy to make a mistake when you are filling out the profile form. Sometimes you mean to check "yes" but don't...etc. This just happened to me last week.

Also, whatever the first reviewer puts is what stays...20 guys could check "yes" in the lick pussy field and if the first guy put no..it's no.

If for some reason the lady is getting a bad vibe from you, than your ymmv (your mileage may vary) You need to have a vip membership. Read the juicy details. The initial profile can be incorrect. Most reviewers will discuss their daty experience in the juicy details section of the review, so you will know what to expect.
Good luck!

Every provider Im interested in it ALWAYS says NO and NO for both. Is this true with the reviews here and what some other users here have experienced with there "sessions".

I've never had that problem here at TER. But, it helps to have a VIP membership so you can read the individual review by each reviewer, rather than depending on the general check list. If you find someone you're interested in, and she has 2 or 3 pages of reviews that report the reviewer was allowed to DATY and touch pussy, then odds are that so will you. If you still strike out, then it's time to do some serious personal evaluation regarding grooming, manners and technique.

The majority of profiles that I read here on TER say yes to both eating and touching pussy.  My advice to you would be to pay for VP and read the entire body of reviews on a lady that you are interested in seeing.  The provider profiles are established when a gal gets her first review and sometimes certain aspects of the profile may be out of date and not completely accurate.

Must have been a bad day for her or Its been a while for me or she just plain does not like it. The last twenty five or so "regular" women I have been with seemed to really enjoy it and you can believe me or not when I say this but half of them would even compliment it without me even asking about anything. So as far as not really knowing whats going on I doubt that. I guess I didn't make the whole post clear enough but this was the first and only provider I have seen and maybe it was more of a time issue since all my other experiences it takes a good amount of time. Ill admit that I have run across one "regular" that said she just don't like it, that she just likes to have something inside her. WHEN I say "regular" I did not mean providers I have seen. Maybe that is where post readers got confused because these are all mainly young women all under 25 that were exgirlfriends, and sex buddy types. Women I had known fairly well and did not exchange any type of donation or currency with.

you probably just ran across one of the few ladies who don't like it. Just keep looking, and you'll find plenty of ladies here on TER who just love it.

http://gayteens.about.com/od/sexualit1/f/oral_sex.htm

read and learn, my friend.  Unprotected oral sex puts both you and the provider at risk.  I'm not sure why nobody here said anything about this, but yes, you can catch something in your mouth and throat.  It has nothing to do with your technique, hygine, etc.

It may be YMMV thing? I look for DATY and touch on the inside when searching reviews. I don't know if this helps but, I always ask if I can wash my hands before I go touching my beautiful dates body. The ladies seem to react positive to this all the time.

Try this.. Let her lead the show. Strip her down slowly. Tell her how beautiful she is (after all she is). Warm her up slow with lots of kissing and soft touching. Move into DATY slow. Ask first if it's Ok to touch on the inside(I always do). Respect her wishes and treat her right.

I have yet to be turned down to DATY or touching on the inside. Hope this helps. Good luck. You'll be OK.

SR

I find most reviews on TER allow DATY and at least touch on the outside. I find more providers do not allow touching inside than will not allow DATY, and even this is not a lot of them.

Personally, in the ladies I have seen I always select the ones that the profile and reviews include DATY, and I have never been disappointed.

There are some providers who admit they do not like DATY, or have specific requests (not too hard, beards, etc.), but even for those that do not specifically enjoy it, they generally allow it. Yes, there are always exceptions.

Just use the VIP search for touching and DATY, and you should be good to go. You can always post that you're looking for DATY lovin' providers on your local board, as long as your prepared for the screening - I see no reviews listed...

allow daty.

If you have VIP you can specifically search for ladies that allow that.  

Not much any of us can do if all the ladies you are interested in don't allow that...either change who you are interested  in, or change what services you want.

You wrote they say "no" and "no" to touching and daty...are you writing or calling and asking them?
If so, then yes, they will probably say "no", as newbie 101 covers "no explicit discussions" and "no talk of specific acts" when contacting a lady.

Again, if you have VIP here it will be listed in the lady's profile, and then you can read the reviews to see.

You say "all" and "always" but then you say you have only seen one lady...
so is your statement an "all" consisting of one and an always consisting of one time?

No, you are not looking for PSE, GFE should do it...but if you are just looking at FS then daty usually won't be on the menu.

Also, what exactly do you mean by daty taking a long time?  If you tell ladies you want to lick them for the majority of an hour, then they probably will tell you no, unlike all the "regular" women fans of your oral skills (no women ever lie about that...and no women ever fake orgasms either...quick question the women that liked your skills so much did they ever have you do it again?  *smirk*) the "irregular" ladies in this business do have other clients and if one client camps out down there slobbering on her nethers for a half hour or so he can make the area tender at the very least...which is counter productive for her to then see any other clients.

"Every provider I'm interested in it ALWAYS says NO and NO for both."

Now you say it was one provider and your first.

So i guess "every" and "always" dont mean the same thing to you as they do to the rest of the world?

Maybe it wasn't a bad day for her, maybe you communicated to her in the same manner you communicated to us here.

Just a thought...

Interested in now, which is some ladies I have looked into recently NOT that I have spent $ on or even called. My only experience with this World or whatever you want to call is a first and only experience with someone Im not going to go back to. I didn't mean for people to attack me ...dang

is it possible you have bad breath?  that could make a ymmv lady decide she doesn't want your mouth too close

just a thought

good luck!

You had one bad experience and are now writing off the entire hobby based on that one experience. Your post plainy, but inaccurately stated that "all" your experiences were that way, but you neglected to inform us that "all" your experiences ammounted to a one single session.

This is the newbie board and we are supposed to be nice, but you have to meet us halfway.

I was not going to write the hobby off that way. I proudly admit the recently I spent alot of time looking into WHO i wanted to see. My second experience was excellent It said "every" not "all" (the whole post does not contain the work "all")and it said that I have been "Looking" at. Maybe you should work on your reading and comprehension skills, mine were above college level in the sixth grade.  I guess there is that much of a difference in schools across the country. I did not think people were going to have that much of a problem comprehending my post.