: Newbie - FAQ Discussion : I DO!

Agnar 29 Reviews 2477 reads

posted 13 years ago

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What do most of you put in this section?

I currently just have some basic info: height, weight... a few things I like to do that might help start a conversation. I don't have anything like, "I am a big fan of BBBJ with some DT and BLS, similar to what some provider profiles have listed they do in private. Do any of you list anything like that?

natashalynne See my TER Reviews 720 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Yes, some guys do, but IMHO it's really better if you don't....

most of that info is already included in the form anyway, and adding it is both redundant and a little bit of a turn-off.

I would keep it lighter, more about you as a person: a physical description, your interests, hobbies (other than this hobby!), etc. It gives us a chance to get to know you, and perhaps a conversation starter.

BeautywithBrains See my TER Reviews 557 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Not a gentleman, but....

...but, I do find the basic information useful: likes scented lotions, non-smokers, prefers scotch to chardonnay, etc.

I do, however, like it when a gentleman elaborates a little on his idea of a perfect date; not daty, bbbj, but his personality. I know it sounds bland, but when I read a profile, that tells me more personal insights, I really appreciate it. Do they volunteer, what is the last book they read, great bottle of wine they opened, etc.

Remember, profiles can be updated often.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

earthshined 562 reads

posted 13 years ago

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I didnt think providers paid attention to that

I only see P411 providers and when I started I put as much personal interests info I could. Not one provider ever mentioned those in conversation.

I try to pay attention to that info from a provider. For ex, if she likes to talk i try to extend conversation. If she likes cooking, I bring up that topic during the date etc...

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 551 reads

posted 13 years ago

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profile

i havent looked at mine in so long..i actually forgot what i put there..they do check it though..more so for the OK's than anything else..

-- Modified on 5/20/2013 6:25:10 PM

BeautywithBrains See my TER Reviews 581 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Re: I didnt think providers paid attention to that

I do, because it allows me to bring up topics that are important to the gentleman. I also read everything, because if a gentleman states that he does not like scented lotions, etc, I will not wear perfume, and if he states a certain look/dress, I might have to explain that I can offer that look once we get behind closed doors, etc.

I always ask what music they enjoy, and what they like to drink (no Louis XIII-sorry), but it always helps to have a little more information.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 607 reads

posted 13 years ago

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This. So much this. -e-

Posted By: natashalynne

most of that info is already included in the form anyway, and adding it is both redundant and a little bit of a turn-off.

I would keep it lighter, more about you as a person: a physical description, your interests, hobbies (other than this hobby!), etc. It gives us a chance to get to know you, and perhaps a conversation starter.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 525 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Re: I didnt think providers paid attention to that

Oh yes, I certainly do. If I see a gent who has filled in absolutely nothing, I will suggest he does or I will not meet him if I can't find reviews he has written. Many of us want to know what YOU like before we agree to a date...it helps us determine if your money might be better spent with someone more suited for you.

Though we are paid to cater and react to different needs, tastes, and desires, not all of us are willing to do certain things. Knowing what a guy is "into" helps us better serve him, or recommend another provider.

-- Modified on 5/21/2013 10:40:17 AM

SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 559 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Agreeing with the other ladies!

Not about acronyms. Not so interested in that- I like my engagements to unfold naturally- not conform to a "checklist" or "menu".

I like to know more about who I will be spending some time with. I provide some refreshments when I host, so if you don't drink, it's a good thing to know. I also like to know what you like to read, what you love to do, etc. Because there will be some down time and it would be nice to have something to talk about.

Some ladies might not read it, but better to have it for those who do, and then those who don't don't have to.

Agnar 29 Reviews 497 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Thanks all... I added a bit more to mine sans the acronyms (eom)

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fallonkelly See my TER Reviews 535 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Oh ABSolutely we look at that. EOM

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jaydalee See my TER Reviews 624 reads

posted 13 years ago

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I DO!

I always look at a gent's profile on P411.I like to know his likes and dislikes if he has it mentioned on his profile.
Also take a look to see if a gent has specified a certain clothing request he likes or just a little info about himself.I always take a note of this and I do bring it up in the conversation especially if it is something interesting.
I think it is a nice touch when a gent fills out his profile so many don't.