most of that info is already included in the form anyway, and adding it is both redundant and a little bit of a turn-off.

I would keep it lighter, more about you as a person:  a physical description, your interests, hobbies (other than this hobby!), etc.  It gives us a chance to get to know you, and perhaps a conversation starter.

...but, I do find the basic information useful: likes scented lotions, non-smokers, prefers scotch to chardonnay, etc.

   I do, however, like it when a gentleman elaborates a little on his idea of a perfect date; not daty, bbbj, but his personality.  I know it sounds bland, but when I read a profile, that tells me more personal insights, I really appreciate it.  Do they volunteer, what is the last book they read, great bottle of wine they opened, etc.

   Remember, profiles can be updated often.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

I only see P411 providers and when I started I put as much personal interests info I could. Not one provider ever mentioned those in conversation.

I try to pay attention to that info from a provider. For ex, if she likes to talk i try to extend conversation. If she likes cooking, I bring up that topic during the date etc...

i havent looked at mine in so long..i actually forgot what i put there..they do check it though..more so for the OK's than anything else..

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Agreeing with the other ladies!

Not about acronyms. Not so interested in that- I like my engagements to unfold naturally- not conform to a "checklist" or "menu".

I like to know more about who I will be spending some time with. I provide some refreshments when I host, so if you don't drink, it's a good thing to know. I also like to know what you like to read, what you love to do, etc. Because there will be some down time and it would be nice to have something to talk about.

Some ladies might not read it, but better to have it for those who do, and then those who don't don't have to.