I know it has been posted before as there are numerous threads, but just curious when the lack of respect for the ladies started to become more of the norm. Let me explain. On a alot of posts/threads, I see the ladies being referred to as "hookers", "sluts" and a few more derogative words more and more often. Now yes, u can make a case that they are indeed hookers, but does anyone really want to be called that? I know I am a degenerate, liar/cheater/law breakin pervert, but doesnt mean I want to be called or addressed that way. No I aint suggesting we bow before them as we hoist them upon the pedastool, but maybe a little class. I could see if this was a hobbyist only board, but it is almost laughable how sometimes people talk about them like a dice clay set from the 90's!  I assume it is internet tuff guy vs how you are in real life. Maybe it is my own issues of showing women more respect than I should, or how I was raised. And hopefully during a session these people arent referring to thier dates as hooker either.

So as I crawl into the fetal position, preparing for the beating I am about to take, let me say yes I changed my diaper, my pu$$y hurts, I need a tissue for my issue, maybe this board aint for me, blah blah blah...but a little respect or courtesy for the ladies really does go a long way...and really just respect for each other.

ok, ready for the pillowcases full of soap bars attack.

And oh yeah, Happy and safe Holidays!

Board.  They would have torn you to pieces.

No here.  Not in person. Not in my mind.   I am affectionate & kindly disposed to ALL my lady friends...   I love them all in their own way.   They treat me the same way.  Either they are really good actresses (they are) or there is a least some sort of bond.  

We are both "partners in crime" as it were.  We know it's an illusion but we both want it for what ever reason.  
If one of us is a "slut" or "tramp" or ____  then what does it make the person who wants to be with her?
Best regards,
HV

First of all, some providers on the board refer to themselves & their sisters-in-the-trade as 'hookers'. Just like Chris Rock & other black comedians drops the 'N" word all over the place.  And of course gay men often refer to themselves as 'queers'.  

So the unspoken rule:  if you're a member of a certain group, then you can use whatever derogatory term you want for that group.  When the word 'hooker' is thrown around by the guys on TER, it's usually when a provider or SB equivocates about what's really being bought & sold in the sex trade.  That was quite evident in a thread I started a few days ago on the GD board.  Although I try not to use derogatory terms ( ad-hom attacks should be avoided), the TER board is a jungle & you're not going to be able to police it.   --z

Thank you for the post.Hey,some providers don't care if you call her a hooker,slut,etc and some of us do not like those words.We all know why we are here but a little respect goes a long way.
I have noticed these posts more and more using derogatory words towards providers I am glad that the gents I spend time with know how to express themselves without all of the negative.
Then there are the ones who say all of those things IMO just for shock value here on the board.

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my girlfriends.  Yes, we all know why we are here, but I agree, a little respect goes a long way.

Swim

it's a small few or maybe one who refers to their '"sisters-in-the-trade as "hookers"'. yes we all know why were here, so it's redundant to use such a term. & it's not deluding oneself to refer to their fellow escorts as "the ladies here". it's just that they're ladies first & foremost. a lot of fabulous ladies too

i was attacked, so it's probably best it's here, where the OP will receive respectful, level-headed responses.
by the way, nice response, jaydalee.

Thank you for your comment.I remember that post but hey let's face it if this was posted on the GD board certain people would have a field day with this one.

and that how I think of them while we are together.