Virtually every time I write to an escort, I do not get written back. From the research I have done, it looks like they want some strong I.D. verification in order to write you back. If so, which one(s) should I try to get

I will try...

These are some of the things you should put in your initial contact...

Your name... I always use a stage name (not one on my driver's license or passport)
Age....
Race... (Important if you are a minority)
Where did you find her.....
How long you want to see her..
Incall or Outcall

Your TER ID is no good since you are brand new. You need to go get yourself DC (date-check.com) or P411 (preferred411.com) verified and then provide the same. Look for newbie friendly girls.  

Finally, Thank her for her time regardless..

You will likely have good results if you follow the aforementioned or some variation of the template.  

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Things to Avoid...

No explicit talk about sex in the initial email
No lewd pictures.  
No discussion of donation.  
Long essays or personal stories...

If 7 or 8 girls out of 10 write you back, that's a good conversion ratio.  


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I'm not the original poster but I found this response very helpful.  

Thank you.

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....if you do not provide your name as it appears on your driver's license/passport, or your place of employment.

   If you do not want to provide this information, simply move on.  

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

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I will say this. There is no absolute right answer and things depend on circumstances...

There will be always disagreement, amongst the hobbying community whether its a good idea to give out real name or not.  There are girls who would consider seeing you w/o real name, and who simply won't. There are guys who would volunteer, not only their real names but probably names of all their family members (living and dead) to get laid, and then there are simply those who won't like me, and are honest about it.  

You will probably end up making your own decision on what to do once you get a little bit experience in the hobby. Use your own judgement. Don't get carried away with opinions on either side.

That's as politically correct and neutral I can be...

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the day (date) and time you want to see her.

Just saying you want an incall date for an hour doesn't make you seem like a serious buyer and not a time waster.

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Curly is dead right on using a verification service.

I use P411, you have to pay a bit of money but once you are approved you see the newbie friendly ladies, and get a few approvals, then you can start scheduling with the ladies that require "basic +2' or more.  (that "basic +2" means "ok's" from two providers you have seen previously and requested an "ok" from.  that confused me at first)

I'm not saying the other verification services are worse, or better, it's just that I use P411 and that site has a solid reputation.

I'm very proud of you, Curls.