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rightonppl 29 Reviews 650 reads
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there's nothing wrong with wanting a little stronger assurance that she's committed to the plan. She should appreciate that, as a rookie, you don't want any last-minute surprises due to scant communication. I think you should tell you you plan to send an email reminder the day before your appointment, and propose that you talk on the phone the morning of, before you head to your hotel. If she doesn't respond to that, you could have a problem.

It's also been my experience that terse emails shouldn't be taken as a lack of emotion. She could be a passionate wildcat in the bedroom.

social2802500 reads

hey guys ... first time visiting a provider, set up an appointment in few days. However, she has been very aloof over email--I have said I have no references as it is first time, so she requested that I book a hotel (no problem). Other than that, she did not request any additional information beyond what was required on her website (name, job, age, description, phone). After the first response (two sentences saying I need to get a hotel, then we could discuss further, whatever that means), the responses have just been one line and she is not taking the lead at all (eg hasn't told me she'll call in advance, told me how to convey room number after check in as I only have her email, or anything).

Is this standard operating procedure?

Basically (reworded) I said "Hello, a hotel is fine, here are some I prefer, my name" she said "any of those is fine" I said "Hello, how about (hotel) at (time), cheers, my name" she said "that's fine with me". And that's essentially all she's said (my messages are above have been shortened somewhat, but the extent of her messages is representative). I'm probably overreacting, but just thought I'd check with you all. (She has about a dozen reviews, all of which are very positive and some from people who have given numerous other reviews). Thanks guys!

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I wouldn't read a lot into the fact that her E-mails are short and to the point.
She is likely busy and/or being cautious. After all she doesn't know you anymore than you know her.
E-mails may change in nature after the first visit if all goes well. But she could be one that doesn't get into e-mail. Either way I'd not be concerned.

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mrfisher805 reads

Some gals love to send long emails every day, and some even insist on a long phone call before they will see you.

Others give a few mono-syllabic answers.

Both have been great.

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Carrie Hillcrest965 reads

But do ask questions if you want to make sure all the details are in place, if anything in particular is concerning you. Within the bounds of propriety/legality, of course. ;) Most of us exercise a fair amount of caution in how much we communicate to new clients, so don't be too alarmed if she's not very chatty at this point.

Me, I like to make sure we're both clear on who is calling who when and where we're meeting and when, etc., but I'm type-A detail-oriented like that. Haha. Not everyone is the same! As xyz and Mr F have said, she may be more easy come easy go, and not the must-get-all-ducks-in-a-row type.

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rightonppl651 reads

there's nothing wrong with wanting a little stronger assurance that she's committed to the plan. She should appreciate that, as a rookie, you don't want any last-minute surprises due to scant communication. I think you should tell you you plan to send an email reminder the day before your appointment, and propose that you talk on the phone the morning of, before you head to your hotel. If she doesn't respond to that, you could have a problem.

It's also been my experience that terse emails shouldn't be taken as a lack of emotion. She could be a passionate wildcat in the bedroom.

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social280710 reads

sounds good, thanks for the tips guys. I appreciate the piece of mind :)

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harborview2454 reads

just let me remind you...  never leave the provider in possesion of a room in your name.  Any damages, mini-bar, if she stays & provides out of 'your' room LE activity on a room linked to your Credit Card can spell trouble.  When you are done, she leaves, do not leave incriminating trash in the basket, bag it & drop it in a public trash, leave a tip for husekeeping, you leave, lock the door.  

You should confirm a few hours before the meeting when you should tell her the name of the hotel.  When she arrives, she should call your (hobby) phone & you give her the room number.  Also tell her how to get to the room (through the lobby & elevators on the left).

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