This past year i started going to strip clubs n it kind of became a hobby of mine. I have some favorite dancers that i would like to see outside of the club for escort services but i don't want to scare them away by just popping the question?

How would you guys approach a situation where u want to find out or get your favorite stripper to escort without scaring her away?

You have no choice but to ask.  
I don't think strippers scare too easily, lol. They are routinely propositioned. Many of them will provide extra services, for a price. Just ask, and don't worry about her scurrying off in fear.  

How long have you known them?  The chances are that, if they have not already approached you, they are not available for escorting. Some gals do and some don't but the smart ones keep it separate from the club so as not to get a bad reputation with the other dancers.

Of course, you can always ask.  If you do it politely most girls will take it as a compliment. Of course, you don't want to do this with a lady that you have just met.

All you have to do is ask.  Something like, "I sure would like to get to know you better outside of the club".  The worst she can do is say "no".

This is so true!  When I was a dancer and not providing I never got offended when someone asked to see me outside of the club.  The only time I got annoyed was when they assumed I did and offered a rate.

Just ask her for her phone number. Three strippers to date have given me their phone number. I've called them to ask if they'll be at the club on a particular night, but I've never had the balls to ask one of them if they'll meet me out of the club. But chances are that if she freely and willingly gives you her number then she's up for it.

After reading around this site, though, I don't think I'll ever do it. It'll be so easy for her to show up in my hotel room, take my money, say "oh i forgot the condoms in the car", and disappear. What does she have to lose? Nothing. It's not like she has to fear a negative review about her or anything. She might even take one of the bouncers from her strip club along with her to intimidate or harass you.

Be careful.

Get back to us when you actually work up the balls to ask an almost total stranger, over the phone, if she will have sex with you for money even though she is not advertising as an escort.

Dancers give customers their cell numbers for one reason-so that we can call and ask them when they are dancing.

Trust me, this is the WRONG way to do it. If you don't have the guts to do it face to face don't ask!

I used to spend a lot of time in strip clubs.  Met tons of nice girls, saw them inside and outside the club and spent tons of money.  You will have to spend a lot of money and time with her in the club for a while so she gets to know you and knows you are not a nut case (screening) and then just ask her in person.  I found that I spent significantly more money on strippers than I do now on escorts, and way too much time in strip clubs.  I would suggest hobbying over strip clubs unless it is the chase you are after.

"The only time I got annoyed was when they assumed I did and offered a rate."

Damn it KCinOC, now I can't give the guy my 2 cents.

Yeah i get you dNoggin it's more of chase im after one of my faves so i visit her frequently eventually im going to ask her if she wants to hang out outside the club.

Please don't tell me that's what you do darling, hahaha.

I remember I used to think "Gosh, not all strippers are escorts!"

.... Fast forward 3 years and here I am.

At the time I would have been SO offended- but that was before I found out how much more secure I feel without constantly worrying that my brother/ friend from school/ ex-boss would walk in through the door.

Get to know her, do lapdances with her over a number of dates, and eventually the matter will come up.  In my experience, the number that are willing will constitute a minority, but there will be times where you will be pleasantly surprised...

If you want sex, ask for sex. Beating around the bush will just cost you money.  Asking a stripper to "Hang out" with you will generally just cause her to see dollar signs floating in front of her eyes.  Hanging out means shopping, dinner, going to a club. It does not mean sex.

If you want to date her I wish you luck and you have my sympathies...

Remember, Strippers make their money by teasing you and leading you on.  Escorts deliver the goods.

asking a dancer to escort is really very simple, get to know her first, once she feels relaxed and safe with you.ask her to join you after work for brekfast or whatever, ease into the conversation and just ask poilitely i have asked numerous girls over the yrs .i never got any kind of problem ,just a poilte yes or no.
its not rocket sience,just good old common sence.