How often did you TOFTT ?? An what was the outcome , was you very nervious? An did it happen to be a really good session after all?

Never have. Never will. Like Gordon Gecko said in "Wall Street", I only bet on sure things. TOFTT is not a sure thing. With that said, I applaud those who are willing to brave risk and disappointment to discover the "undiscovered country" among paid escorts.

Although I am still new to this, I have never done and will never do. If I won the powerball maybe, but I have limited cash to burn for my dick.

going to casino .A  lot depends on your expectations and understanding.I deal with newbies, and while each lady is different ,most share commonalities.
I don't know that I would call it nervous ,more like excited.
I  have found that being a gentleman and not trying to take advantage of ladies, has earned me respect with them.I'm known in my area and even have ladies call me for reviews and/or have heard of me.Results vary of course ,I have had 6/7 mind blowing sessions with extreme hotties or true nympho's.
Most are in & out in a short time and remain my UTR "friends w/benefits".A few (8) are in the top 100 in my area(atl.)
Seeing newbie's is not for everyone,I have been fortunate to have bout 10  great ter guys in my area that are of a like mindset and were having a ball and so are the girls!
Now all this fun has made  most "old timers" ,agencies& older independents jealous and fearful and I get called a pimp or attacked by them & aliases almost on every post.
But if your ever in Atlanta  and know how to treat a lady ...
  Hope I  have given some answers to your inquiry  happy hobbying

but my first couple of tries were blind before I found TER...  both were disappointments.  After a coule of successes & repeated visited, I decided to strike out on my own & got a short timer & rush job.  You can read that review.  
In a sense, every first meeting is an experience...   I will never go in blind again.
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For me, it's never planned, it's just a matter of coming across a provider who peaks my fancy. Either her pics or ads. Reagan Moore was a wonderful TOFTT experience. Others did not go as well. However, most have been at a minimum a 7/7.

Many of the ladies eventually decide to get out of the biz, as it's not for them. Once I had a few successful toftt experiences, I developed  a check list of do's and don'ts. That pretty much has kept me away from having a really bad experience. Finally you can never discount, that little voice, that tells you "danger,danger"  you need  to walk away. Good luck! PS if any hobbyist ads to this thread and hasn't written a review, discount his entire post.

I admire your courage and dedication, sir. TOFTT is definitely NOT for the faint of heart (but can be good on the wallet when it comes to finding diamonds in the rough).

I must have seen about 100 gals between the escort ads, phone book agencies and MPs that I would go to.

Surprisingly, the vast majority of the sessions were at least good, and many were great.  Only two or three sessions were poor in that the gal hustled me in and out, but at least I still got my rocks off.

I never experienced a total rip-off, LE or threats of violence from a pimp.

My only real rip-off was on my first foray into Boston's Combat Zone.  I fell for the "Champagne Room rip-off.  Oh well, that was only $100 back in 1974.

Since starting to use TER back around 2004 things have been much better overall, quality wise.  The net is has to be the single best thing that ever happened to hobbying.

There was no TER back when I started paying for sex. Hell, there was no internet!  

Nowadays it's actually a lot tougher.  The streetwalker scene is pretty much gone as far as quality women go and Back Page is about 95% BS.  I Have been sticking with my ATF, a few other favs and some reliable agencies for quite a few years now.  Still, If I saw an ad that intrigued me and she had a legit web site and/or advertising history I might take a chance.

As far as rolling the dice on a BP girl with no other verification? Absolutely not!

...have realistic expectations.