There's a balance between hobbyist anonymity & provider security. Some providers want employment info, name as it appears on DL, & one even wants a picture(?). These are deal killers (privacy concerns, LE, et al) & I say "NEXT!" but miss out on these ladies. But they miss my $$$, too.

Great references & my TER handle reasonable compromise & acceptable to MOST providers.

Be careful w/info about yourself that you give out. It can come back to bite ya.

-- Modified on 6/12/2005 11:39:52 AM

I'm not sure how you were able to meet any of them if you are not willing to give any of the screening info?

"But they miss my $$$, too."
Two points to the above statement.

1) You can't spend your money in jail.
2) You can't spend your money from the grave.

I'm sure they would be more then willing to pass on a few $$$ here or there, than to meet LE (or worse a PSYCHO)!

References may work in leiu of personal information, ladies who do not accept that are NOT going to be missing the $$$.

My objection is to being asked intrusive info. Like I said, there's a balance.

I've only had an issue with one provider unwilling to compromise & accept solid references. There is one I'd like to call but she requires a picture. Why pic?

-- Modified on 6/12/2005 8:06:44 PM

I'm not sure what part you find intrusive.  Everything you have stated in your first post is just normal screening info.  She might want your picture to compare with your name/picture on your DL.  You should be more concerned if she doesn't do a good job screening.  Providers get busted, and some turn to help LE bust other providers (or clients).  Who are we to decide what is enough information to make her feel safe & comfortable?
If you find a provider that wants more info than you want to give, keep with your current plan and say “NEXT”.  There are many other ladies for you to see.  Agencies probably will require less personal info, but the get busted too.  Your other option is a service like date-check or roomservice2000.  They also require employment info, but at least then you know if you meet a psycho provider she can't call you at work!  


"Great references & my TER handle reasonable compromise & acceptable to MOST providers."

I have read this line from your 1st post several times, but still can't figure out what it means.  Maybe that they should be happy that you are willing to give them that much info?    I’m not sure?  Either way, they get to make the final call!


-- Modified on 6/13/2005 9:39:52 PM

I recently saw my 4th (well, 3rd successfull) provider in Las Vegas.  On my 1st e-mail to her, I provided a scanned image of my Nevada DL.  Some may say that this is too much info, but I have seen her on the net for a little while now, and I have seen her photos with another provider who I have seen on the net for an even longer time.  Both have a pretty good reviews too so I felt comfortable enough that she was not LE.  Plus I figured that as long as I followed some basic rules and saftey measures that I most likely would be safe as well.  My 2nd attempt I could have been arrested during if she had been LE cause I realized what I had agreed to right after I said it.  My heart stopped for a few seconds when that happened.  So now I know what to be careful of, and I know from my first attempt how to do my homework first to ensure a good time.  I say, feel comfortable with her first and then be open so she feels comfortable with you too.  My last two times I have followed that M.O. and they have both worked out to my satisfaction.  

 Any thoughts or comments are encouraged!!

--Kreyzy

Is giving your real first and last name a requirement by all providers?  Do they ask to see your driver's license when first meet you?