Until you write to TER and request that your profile be linked to your board posts.

Then you can just click on the link every time you post that takes you to your profile and read them.

You'll only be able to do this for your own reveiws unless you pay to become a VIP member.

A friend of mine said he wrote a review for me, but I cant figure out how to get to it. Or maybe it was never posted!?

If the review was not approved it will give a reason and he can correct it.  Sometimes "friends" say they'll write a review but never do.  You can also search for your profile and see if it's posted. To do this go to reviews, then search reviews, put your ph# and city in the required fields. Then click on search.

If you can afford it, It's really great to be a VIP member.  That way you can check your reviews, then click on the reviewer to see what he says about other ladies he has seen.  I find it very helpful to be able to compare my rates to other escorts who have similar reviews.  Plus it's nice to be able to whitelist someone who writes a nice review for you (be sure you know who they are first and want to recommend them!)  I don't know if you have to be a VIP to whitelist or not.  I know I had to send a request to mgmt to be able to whitelist.  Once I was approved, it was very easy-done with one click.
I also like to see how all of my friends are doing with their reviews and on the top 100 list (if they are there).

Good luck!

And is he new to TER? It usually takes a few days (sometimes a week or more) for a review to be posted. Also, if he's had no previous reviews TER will often leave the review pending until someone with a board and/or review history leaves another review.

It's a quirk, but it's been discussed here before. You can search this board for further details on this.