I was wondering how private providers can post here on TER? Any help

Providers are welcome to take part in any of TER's discussion boards.  

Now as for your question, I assume you mean posting ads.  These are allowed on TER's Regional Boards (see the dropdown box to the left).  You are allowed to post one ad every seven days on a regional board.  If you will be touring, you will be touring to another region, you can announce your visit with an ad in each of the 2 weeks prior to your visit.

One more rule - if you have a website, and want to post a link to it on any of TER's boards, your website has to display a TER badge or banner.  This link should help in getting this - http://www.theeroticreview.com/info_policies/siteListingHelp.asp

Welcome aboard, and please feel free to ask any questions you may have,

jazz32 - The Newbie Mod