I have to imagine giving one is a lot more fun than getting one. I found a provider who does these, but am afraid I will come off as a pig if I ask to give her one - especially if it's on our first meeting. Also, wouldn't it  be kind of risky to specifically request it, since you're not supposed to discuss specific services? I would not want her to get spooked. Any advice would be much appreciated.

If you know for sure that she is cool with them, don't be shy about asking.  Her profile and/or reviews ought to make it clear if she is COF friendly.  Don't bring it up till the envelope is exchanged and the clothes are off.

Do be careful about getting any cum in her eyes.  It really stings like hell.

I bring along swim goggles, an idea I got from porn films.  They do the trick nicely, and look kind of kinky too.

(Be sure to wash them off real well after each use.)

And those goggles....do you darken them so she can't see you?  I saw that in some porn as well  

Enquiring minds want to know  LOL

And they also love to help. So ask them for their help. Like, "Hey, other than your vag, where else can I dump?" That way, if she's cool with COF, she'll list that as one of her options. BOOM! Problem solved.

as for how I know it stings like hell, I miscalculated one time and got it in some gal's eye, and she was mightily POed about it.

She got over it though and we're still pretty tight.