I'm not really saying its not.But if you want to play this game you just have to be as careful as possiable and make sure you cover up for that first helping of coffee. And as for oral make sure you don't brush or floss before seeing a escort or client and use lots of mouth wash after.If your that up tight then don't do it.Damn I'm more conserned about catching a cold or the flu from DFK with a client.Thats happend before.All i'm saying is most of the time the guys I see are over 35,married with kids and just as careful as me.And I don't see guys under 35 because most of the time they are not married.I'm not saying I don't see single guys ether but most all of my men are the older married types. I just try to be as safe as possiable with out wairing a gas mask,and you should be too. And if it bothers you that much then don't do it.
I am new to this game and have only been with "massage only" providers. The reviews I read on the FS providers sound amazing, but......... While the FS action seems really stimulating, I quickly come to my senses related to the risks. I read in the reviews of all the high risk "fluid exchange" activities. DFK, BBBJTC, CIM, Swallows, DATY, 69, etc. I am not a prude, but these activities scare the hell out of me. Aids will kill you, Herpes is with you for life, other STDs are cured with RX but highly embarrassing if you share with your wife. I have seen many posts that suggest that 70-80 of hobbyists are married. I would think that the providers would be very concerned about unprotected fluid exchange. Same for hobbyists. I have seen similar posts on the topics and people tend to say "be careful and if you can not assume risk, stay away". I am curious what both providers and hobbyists think about these unprotected activities.
I do not DATY, BBBJ or DFK. All these activites are too "high risk" for me since I have an SO to think of. Any exchange of fluids is risky. That being said, getting behind the wheel of a car or getting in an airplane is risky. It ultimately is a personaly choice. After, I always clean up with antiseptic wipes I bring with me to the session along with Purell antiseptic hand cleaner. These items both can be bought in travel sizes. I also pee immediately after. Play safe. "Stud"
Studstacker, I fully agree with your evaluation of the risks, and I won't do BBBJ, DATY, DATO or DFK.
When you're picking out an escort, do you confine yourself to those who do only CBJ's? Or if they do BBBJ's, do you simply tell them to cover you up first?? Do the providers care? So far I've tried to limit myself to those who are listed on TER as doing only CBJ's, but maybe I'm limiting myself too much. Thanks for your thoughts.
I do not limit my selection of providers to only those who cover up for all activities. If I am seeing someone new all I need to say at the beginning of a session is "By the way, I love safe sex". I have always received a positive response.
why one should do research, ask questions, don't believe everything you read in reviews .. make sure you ask her questions before you hook up ... and choose very very wisely ... there are probably 20 to 30 ladies I would love to see but I don't because of the questions you raise .... hobby safe hobby well hobby all you can be ........
As a provider, I think about it like this; anyone who requests unsafe sex is an idiot who probably drives even when he's "had a few" and thinks his buddies are assholes for trying to take his keys. I don't want to have anything to do with him, and I don't want his damn money because anybody asking you to risk your health/life in order to fulfill a preference is telling you their money is worth more than you are. How sexy.
But that is not the case.I'd be happy to give CBJ and no DFK or DATY .But most guys want it or your not a GFE.At least thats the way it is in MA. All you have to do is ask to be covered before a session begins.I do it when a guy asks.But most want the BBBJ's But I never let the guy cum in my mouth or face or on my pussy. He has to be covered to cum.
If your with a very high class independent or a very high class internet agency your chances of getting any thing is almost zero. I'm an escort and I'm also married and I wouldn't want to bring anything home to my husband ether.But I'm still full service. I'm very picky about who I see and I only see about 3 clients a week. Plus I get tested for HIV and all STD'S every 3 months. I'm safer then what you would pick up in a bar! But if you have fears about getting something then do what you feel is best. Better safe and have pease of mind then to be sorry.
Ok, how do you know the John last week doesn't have an STD? He's nice, clean, respectful, even a steady customer, but he doesn't get tested every 3 months and he probably has other partners. Also, a lot can happen in 3 months (in your case 36 tricks). Not to disagree about you being safer than a bar pick-up.
I like to be oral-- DFK, DATY. I know that the official STD position is that this is risky. I wonder what the stats are, if there are any, on just this risk.
I'm not really saying its not.But if you want to play this game you just have to be as careful as possiable and make sure you cover up for that first helping of coffee. And as for oral make sure you don't brush or floss before seeing a escort or client and use lots of mouth wash after.If your that up tight then don't do it.Damn I'm more conserned about catching a cold or the flu from DFK with a client.Thats happend before.All i'm saying is most of the time the guys I see are over 35,married with kids and just as careful as me.And I don't see guys under 35 because most of the time they are not married.I'm not saying I don't see single guys ether but most all of my men are the older married types. I just try to be as safe as possiable with out wairing a gas mask,and you should be too. And if it bothers you that much then don't do it.
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