1). Is it safe? What are the chances to be caught by law enforcement? There is a chance that any hobbyist can get nabbed. Use common sense on the day of the appointment. Keep your eyes open but avoid paranoia. Pay attention to your surroundings. Knock lightly and briefly on the door if you do incall. If you are single, separated or divorced and don't have nosey neighbors, have the provider visit you at home if that is possible. If she causes a noisy scene, ask her to leave.    

2). Which one will be safer: in-call? out-call? in hotel she sets up? in her apt.? Outcall is safer. Only State and Federal police work across city and/or county lines without coordination with local cops. The possibility that cops over multiple juristictions will cooperate in time to nab you during your outcall is neglible.    

3). Would I get what I want (the ultimate thing)? If you don't have reviews for her, you're taking a chance. I understand it can't be discussed over the phone but it's assumed we are on the same page, right? Without reviews, you are taking a chance.

1). Is it safe? What are the chances to be caught by law enforcement?

Not if you do it right. Go on BP and select the uglest provider on the board. LE only uses good looking woman.

  2). Which one will be safer: in-call? out-call? in hotel she sets up? in her apt.?

Outcall is better. You don't want the neighbors asking about you visitor.

  3). Would I get what I want (the ultimate thing)?

With some of the ladies on BP you stand a very good chance of getting more than you want, say of instance. An econimic discussion with her pimp. A cheap hotel with friendly smiles from management.  An experence you will never forget so take flowers.

Couldn't resist, sorry. By your questions you need to do more research. Read the post on this board and the Newbie board. Be very careful, Join a service, P411 or Date-Check and select one of the escorts from there.

If LE shows up STFU and stay that way until your lawyer arrives.

This is illegal, THERE  IS ALWAYS A RISK. But it can be done with an acceptable level of risk as long as you remember two things. 1. Wives and their laywers, they come and they go. 2. If your single, you probably ain't really living unless you see the inside of a jail once and require a good lawyer once in a while.