I was a little surprised to see a lack of information on this here. Is there anything I should know that wouldn't be in other newbie faqs?

That's the gist of it. Some ladies will be willing to work with you, some won't. The ones you meet you can consider "nurses"...very sexy nurses, who have seen it all. Beyond that, I'd need to know more about your condition to provide any further advice.

Are you speaking from experience?  
I've already done what you suggest, so if that's all, I'm not worried.

Send him a pm. However not sure if he's VIP.  Or you can do a search of his posts here and it might help you out.  
 

I'm not VIP either but I'll read the old posts. Thanks.

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...right above the first thread. Top 10 posters button then search button. Click that. You can search by author. Check the Atlanta board. Wheelchairman posts there often.

The best thing you can do is be honest about your needs. There are a lot of compassionate ladies who will be happy to help you out if they know what your needs are and it's within their comfort level.

If heavy lifting and/or moving is involved, start with the more healthy size gals. I wouldn't go for the skinny minny or spinner type. That would be the only thing holding me back and other smaller size gals too.
What's your size..are you a solid husky man?  
What is your "needs assessment" regarding basic living skills?
Not that you gotta answer these on a public board but rather some quesrions/answers she will need to know.
Like, my besties child has a physical disability but she is some what ambulatory and only needs help when she steps up or down things and I put her shoes n shirt on her due to her limited mobility in certain parts (she has cp)
My cousin had LG and became totally immobile. Upper extremities too so we fed him n stuff.
So there's varying degrees of disabilities.
What's sort of assistance is needed.
What will be required of her to assist you.

Not sure if this is the website you were talking about but it is one I was familiar with. I am not disabled but learned of this site from a provider friend who did see disabled clients regularly and was a member of this site. She had a page on her site about it and links to this organization.

because it's only fair to the provider.

Basically, you should inform her ahead of time, and if she seems open to the idea, be sure to explain how everything works - and what doesn't. For example, not having feeling below a certain part, or really loving something in particular, etc. And be aware if you need things like a lift that it may be best to play at your place. things like a lot of stairs at her incall could also be a concern, and not only for those who are wheelchair bound.

I am assuming you know your own limitations. Everyone has them disabled or not. Always tell the provider or agency upfront about your needs. Don't go into that much details about the session itself. Just say "I use a power chair and it maybe hard for me to move around. If you have a speech impairment like I do tell the lady beforehand. I setup my dates via email and texts. I have references that explain my situation to other ladies and agencies that helps out a lot.