I predict you'll be very popular!
Eros has a bdsm section, and most of the advertisers are dommes (at least in my area), so you'll practically have the place to yourself.   You could look around that section in your region, and others and try emailing other submissive escorts for advice.  I have a friend who advertises herself as a submissive escort, and she takes client references from other providers.  I don't think she does the pre-meeting, she does the scene arrangements with clients through email...but that's not a bad idea (especially since you're brand new, and of course, your safety and comfort are paramount)--you could get a gut feeling about the guy by meeting him first...

I sub in my personal life, but mostly do vanilla as an escort (with the exception of clients I've seen a couple times, and have a good feeling for, then I'll ease into the submissive role if they want me to and I feel like it)...I guess the same rules apply--know your boundaries, make sure the dom respects those boundaries...he doesn't get to do things you're not comfortable with just because there's money involved.

When I was first exploring submissiveness, I spent a lot of time on the newbie board on alt.  I got a lot of good, protective advice from other sub women.  You could go on there, and ask about doing this professionally, although I don't know how that would go over with the 'true submissive' crowd...

Also in my area, there's a couple of support/learning groups for bdsm folks, if you have those down there, you should check them out (if you haven't already).
You could also do a search on here for submissive women (if you read the first part of s/m reviews, you can figure out which way they swing) and try emailing those ladies...I think many are escorts as well as straight subs, the template will list both s/m and escort under 'services provided' .

Take care, and have fun!

Lots of us do fantasies and fetish dates.....it is added to our menu of services we offer. I absolutely LOVE BDSM!!! Most providers can do a vanilla date or a fetish date or whatever.... however there is a huge difference between light and heavy domination....heavy domination is an ongoing education process....if you have not done so already find yourself a pet and they will teach you the ropes.....notice I did not say a TOP.....TOPs never feel the pain you inflict on a pet....so to learn exactly what you are supposed to be doing....FORGET THE WHOLE GUISE THAT YOU HAVE TO STUDY UNDER A MISTRESS/MASTER....get an pet willing to teach you. ie anyone can flip a flogger around....spinning two 18 inch floggers at the same time in different directions and making each lick count is a whole different story.....a real arm wrist work out and I watched double dutch competitions with my pet.


As for a pre-meeting...it has to get done. No respectable Professional Top wants to send a paying pet to ER. As a TOP I can get really really outrageously mean...or go as light as a client wants me to....or none of that. To not have a sit down talk with a client figure out exactly what they want, what they don't want, a safe word.....or something is DANGEROUS....and what if they want a service you have never heard of?

As a provider who can flip from basic GFE, to a gentle loving Courtesean, to PSE, to a mean cruel humiliating ass Mistress....I SUGGEST unless you are working in a very well managed, dungeon with TIGHT SECURITY....NEVER EVER NEVER ALLOW A CLIENT TOP YOU........EVER IN LIFE. If you have to feed the need to bottom....go to a bdsm club and get yours off. Think of how dangerous that is.....even if they don't mean to hurt you...odds are they have not trained under a skilled PET....hey they might want to choke you to see if you will get off.....