Total newb here.  I saw a provider the other day and after our session I messaged her if I could get a referral on TER (she is a member here)

If I click "My TER" -> "More" -> "My Referrals" there is an area (that is currently empty for me) where I assume providers would put a note or something after seeing a client.  Like maybe that I'm not a creeper or anything.

I don't think she understood what I was asking or knew that it was a feature of the site because she said "Sure I'll give you a referral just have the lady contact me"

So can someone give a brief tutorial of the steps to click through on the website for a provider to give me a referral here so I can let her know what they are?  I searched around and didn't find anything really.