Newbie - FAQ

Had my first BAD experience yesterday...
longtallpaul78 5 Reviews 2425 reads
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1 / 15

So, I'm pretty new to this whole thing, been seeing a couple of providers for a few months.

I decided to try a new gal yesterday who's been advertising for as long as I can remember. I called her and she answered, said she had a "2 girl special" for $350.

Well, that sounded pretty sweet to me, and an outcall for an hour with 2 girls, $350 sounded reasonable.

They got there, they were both hot. They undressed to their underwear and the more bossy of the two started a massage. Then she says... "so are you gonna tip us good so we can do more than a massage?" I had already tipped them $50 bringing the total to $400.

Did I mention they were an hour late?

So apparently $400 buys you jack squat. Clearly I didn't ask enough questions. What a let-down.

Anybody have suggestions on how I can screen better? I know I should check here, but a lot of girls in my area simply aren't reviewed at all...

mrfisher 115 Reviews 1347 reads
posted
2 / 15

In any case, this is classic upsell/bait and switch and is as close as you can get to a rip off.

Not even a hand job?  Pthff!

Write a review and let the rest of us know to stay away.

Stay with well reviewed providers.

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 1454 reads
posted
3 / 15

Most of the time "two girl specials" are a rip-off.  They either up sell or they one-and-done you and then throw you out after 20 minutes.

How to screen better? Did they have reviews here on TER? If not then you really did not screen at all.

longtallpaul78 5 Reviews 1285 reads
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4 / 15

Thanks guys. They didn't have any reviews on TER (like I said, very few girls actually do where I'm from - stupid small towns). But, I just submitted one, and hopefully it will save future customers the headache!

paige.harrington 1399 reads
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5 / 15

sorry you had a bad experience-you should have called me!
Paige x

termsofdelicious See my TER Reviews 1086 reads
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6 / 15
longtallpaul78 5 Reviews 2238 reads
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7 / 15

Topeka Kansas. Not a whole lot of action here. Even if you make the drive to Kansas City, not a lot of reviewed providers...

termsofdelicious See my TER Reviews 1094 reads
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8 / 15

Hi LT Paul,
Please send me an email or pm, I have some private infomration to share with you.
[email protected]

Soft, sweet and helpful,
SG

Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 1173 reads
posted
9 / 15

Way below market!  Not surprising that you got the upsell.  

Suggest that you read reviews, and make sure that whomever you plan to see is well reviewed, both in substance and quantity.  The fact that providers in your area are not reviewed is not a good reason to not do your homework.  Many areas that are not well covered on TER have other resources that you should look into.  Also, remember that if pricing is significantly below market, caveat emptor!

longtallpaul78 5 Reviews 1268 reads
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10 / 15

Thanks all for the good insight. As I said, I'm new to this.

ALSO, not the same topic, but I've submitted 4 reviews over the past month, and not one of them has ever shown up. Am I doing something wrong?!

SinsOfTheFlesh See my TER Reviews 914 reads
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11 / 15

Errr, I'm in KC, have a 785 area code number, and I have 36 reviews. I dunno how you missed me when you searched :(

longtallpaul78 5 Reviews 1723 reads
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12 / 15

I can't believe I missed you, either! Are you comfortable meeting relative newbies?

GaGambler 791 reads
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13 / 15
SinsOfTheFlesh See my TER Reviews 806 reads
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14 / 15
Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 1621 reads
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15 / 15

And post any negative commentary about the upsell on the nearest local board, if the ROB's are available in that area.  You should also find out and search for any other boards that are particular to your area, especially if your area is outside the TER sphere of influence.

Providers that upsell are viewed negatively in the community, and you should let fellow hobbyists in your area know!

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