Ladies, I was just wondering what's the most amount of times per week that a client repeats with you on a regular basis?  2 times?  3 times,4 times, more?  Does it get to be too much? LOL.  After a certain point, would you want to see a new guy just the way guys always want variety?

you just asked this and got your answer on the other board..right?

and maybe deservedly so,but we're supposed to be nicer over here.

I'm not a provider so I have no answer. Sorry dude.

I posted that topic here first and posted both at about the same time, so this is the first time I checked back to see the answer.  And, no I didn't get an answer to my specific question on the other board....unless you count the sarcastic non-answers.  Bella of Chicago was the only one nice enough to give an answer.

Thanks Bella.  Nice of you to answer.  That's probably about what I average for my favorite, sometimes more if she calls me to let me know she's available on a day that I didn't expect.

the board is nicer over here....maybe that's just a reflection of the mod who seems mellow and cool or the members.

You'll just get less of them. lol

I see that you posted a couple of times a few months ago when I was on vacation.  So let this be your official, although belated, welcome to the newbie board!!!  The participation, and assistance of experienced gals is always greatly appreciated!!!

jazz32

Well Jazz he got no response and was also told that  using an alias he should expect little response.

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Anytime! I just need to get myself to remember to check this board more often!

Thanks for the welcome!

He specifically asked how often per week gals see their regulars.  Bella replied saying up to 2x per week, depending on schedule.  This was the only answer of substance he received on either board!!!

Let's see, a gal with over 13 pages of reviews, posted over 5 years, yeah I'd say that is helping out from a credible source!!!

Sure if he didn't post under an alias,  he may have received some more substantive replies.  Of course on the General Discussion board, he would have also opened himself for a beating!!!

jazz32

Bella is great, sure  I was just stating it wasnt meant to be a brush off..an alias is bs these days too many people asking questions and ...who are they. It was stated w/ the same ? on another board. the answer was because he used an alias he didnt get an answer.  Thats all I was stating... I may not have seen Bellas answer.

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whenever I see a username or alias with one in it, I know that it is a long time member posting, which automatically gives the post some credibility in my mind.  I also have no problem with alias' as long as they are not used for flaming, because there really isn't a difference in my mind between the alias and the regular username when just expressing an opinion.  

I didn't answer the OP because, well, I don't provide; but I also didn't really understand the beat down on the other board either.

Thanks Dixie.

It's funny, that I've been posting for 4 years now using the same thing, hence I have a space.  I don't see that much of a difference between using either because both are essentially aliases....no one's using their real name here.  Many long time members do not use their regular screennames because their reviews of their ATF's are on here and by posting on topics that involve my atf, I would be revealing stuff about her...it's not hard to figure out who my atf is from my reviews.  And, what's the big deal if it's just about a topic on opinion or life in the hobby....not about screening procedures, etc.
No offense, Nicole, I seriously do not know why you're suddenly making such a big deal about it since you were just fine answering my many posts on here or elsewhere under my "alias." (just scroll down on this very page and see).  It's only when that one guy made some smart alecky comment that you jumped on the bandwagon.  The guy was just being rude...even if one feels like its a touchy topic, there are more diplomatic ways to handle it.  There are always some angry members on the general board that like to flame or just make some hostile smart alecky remarks for the sake of it, which is why I posted the topic on here too because I felt I could for sure get an informative answer here.  It was a simple topic that came up in one of my sessions when a provider was talking about how much some clients repeat and I was wondering what was the norm.

It's not really a beatdown, Dixie...it was one dude with a hostile answer and then soemone jumping on the bandwagon....everyone else on the newbie board has been nice.  Personally, I think the reaction is silly since it was such a benign subject.  Some people just like to start trouble or be unpleasant for no reason.

OMG I am so sorry... I don't get the whole alias thing and all for such a simple question but its really none of my business. So I had a bitchy moment..please forgive me..I don't have too many of those..I will try like hell to behave myself from now on.

No. Problem.  I think a lot of regular members just feel more comfortable talking about their experiences in the hobby without revealing the specific providers they are basing this experience off of--since our reviews follow our regular screennames like the Scarlet letter...it's just better off for us to discuss topics...we are just discussing our experiences here after all...(we all know guys check out our review history to figure out who it is we're talking about--if you're not a rookie, you figure that out quickly). For instance, I had a whole thread complaining about the one magical hour in the day where my atf's regulars all compete like crazy for it...now if I used my real screenname, then my atf would be totally embarrassed by it.  This topic was also based on my atf when I saw a different girl and she wished that she could get someone to get such steady income and asked what my atf does for me to come back so many times, which made me wonder if that was quite a lot of times to repeat per week and what others norms were.

your participation, and willingness to help here on the newbie board is also valued!!!

I accept your point, if you want an honest answer, your best option is to post using your username, rather than an alias.  That way folks know who you are, and can PM you details, if they'd rather not post too much on a public board.

Again Nicole, a late, but sincere welcome to the board.   The advice of the ladies is ALWAYS welcome.  (sorry but I was off my game a couple of weeks ago - here in the UK, Easter is a 4 day weekend, and I missed you joining us.)

jazz32

Nicole, your apology skyrockets my opinion of you. We all have bitchy moments, apparently you have classy ones as well.

I did not answer on the Nat Board...  I'm not independantly wealthy.  If I was, I'd see my ATF daily (maybe 2x daily).  Could I get a volume discount?  Would that make me a cheapskate?  Opens a whole bag of worms...

I kind of freaked when I Gooled my "handle" alias and my posts came up.  I stopped using it and when to  this "alias" for all my posts...  
I have reviewed 5 ladies...  will review more as time passes...   I wanted to discuss aspects of my experiences without reflecting on them.  
S-

Nicole is the definition of class.

of course, I am biased.  I've gazed into those beautiful eyes and gotten lost in them.  

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hugs n kisses to you Dixie...

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