Do you guys prefer the initial meeting to be incall or outcall? I personally prefer the provider to come to me but its not a deal breaker if they want me to come to them

Sometimes the girl is staying at a hotel and is traveling from out of state. She has no car or transportation. I will go to her. At times she is local, and I want to treat me to a nice steak dinner and some bedroom fun. In that case I ask her to come to me..  

Sometimes her business model doesn't really yield very well to providing outcalls for whatever reasons, perhaps she is high volume, and doesn't want to get stuck in DC traffic. In that case I will go to her instead of paying her a arm, a leg and my left testicle to come to me..  

Sometimes her business model yields only to providing outcalls, because she probably sees like may be one guy a day, or may be sometimes not even that, and doesn't want to give half of her money to the hotel rent. So she is very willing to come to me.. I've had many cut me a discount to come to me too. So gain - gain.  

At times, on weekends, I've been on call for the weekend. I can't go too far from house. I get horny and have someone come to local hotel. I can have fun and login and work if someone calls me from office.  

Now, do you have a real question or were just interested in knowing our thoughts on the topic?..It wasn't really clear after reading your post.

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I just wanted to get everyone's thoughts and opinions, because I myself like to get a nice room and sometimes its difficult to get a provider to come see me, which I understand. I always get asked why I have a room, which I politely tell them why.

or there is something fishy going on. I got asked couple of times too.. They said something to the effect.. Why are you having a hotel room because you seem to be local. (Based on my area code). They seem to believe that hotel rooms are only for guys who are out of towners. lol

I mean I've been called asshole before, but calling me LE is just plain stupid.. lol

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Lol! I'm with you on that! I tell them they can check me out here and a couple other forums I post on. I've been in the hobby for 15 years and let them know my profession and I always get a nice hotel not a low budget spot, but I do understand thatsome providers are cautious. It makes me more comfy to get my own room because I have roommates and don't want them getting freaked out by that.

Always tell them in the emails that I host in 4 to 4.5 Star hotels close to highway..  

Didn't know you were a veteran. Sometimes hard to tell w/o review history

Roomie owns it and he won't allow it.  He knows what I do, he just doesn't want me having girls come to the house.  Even though he's met a very well-reviewed provider, he still has the stereotype-hooker attitude about them in general.   However, I do prefer incall, as I think the girls are usually more comfortable in their own surroundings whether it be her home, incall apt., or hotel room she has chosen, rather than going to the house of a complete stranger.  

If I ever live by myself again, I might do an outcall but it would depend on several things, which I won't bore you with here.  One time I did get a room for an extended date because the provider was in process of changing incall apts and could not use either one temporarily.  I ended up spending the night in the room after she left.

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until you've had a successful meeting elsewhere.  I don't mean to paint with a broad brush but some unknown percent of providers &/or their pimps/BFs...  may try to rob you, may try to blackmail you, may return & try to gain entrance on another occasion.  Once they have your address it's easy to find your information.  

Don't even think of having a provider to your home if you have a SO.  Finding a strange hair, some forgotten item, incriminating evidence...  even the scent of another woman...  Some women can smell sex a block away!  Forget about it.  If you are single, just remember to wash your sheets once in a while.

I much prefer to go to her incall for a first meeting...  no paper trail for me to worry about.

If I'm visiting an area I'm unfamiliar with I generally prefer that gentleman come to me.  Usually because it's just easier & I'm younger & rental cars are a pain in the ass (daily surcharges for being under 24 or 25...) so usually having someone come to me is less expensive for me.

I'm pretty low volume so when I'm at home (home for me is both DC & NYC) I generally just meet with gentleman who are in from out of town and they already have built in accommodations.  I have talked to several people who do get a hotel room in their local area to have a little fun and I don't think it raises any red flags especially if they are screening properly.  

I typically don't meet with someone at their home the very first time we meet.  It can be a little scary especially if a girl is really, completely independent and doesn't enlist a driver or any sort of security at all.