No responses from the newbie friendlies I've contacted on 411 as of yet.. I must be doing this wrong. I've been sending prescreens wih my number; should I just outright call them?

Ps. I'm thankful for the newbie discussion forums hah

How much time did you give them? Some ladies will get back to you right away. Some will take awhile, even a few days occasionally. There are other things going on in their lives too. Generally it is ok to send a follow up email or call, and let them know that it is a follow up (as they may never have gotten the initial one) Maybe give them 24 hours then follow up. If you hear nothing back after a follow up, then move on. More than one follow up can be considered stalking. If you left your phone number as a way for them to get back to you, did you leave instructions as to when is a good time to contact you? Many ladies will not return a phone call since they don't know if you have a hobby phone, or if you are with your SO, or in some important meeting or something when they call back. It is important to let them know when they can call. (days and times) Did they email you instead? did you check your email? If you PMd them through P411, did they PM you back. Did you check that?

If they hae a phone number listed as a legit contact method for them, then it should be fine to call them. Some ladies prefer email only, or contact through PM feom the site. If so honor that.

It might be possible that they are checking out the OP before replying.   Give them some time, as they do have real lives outside the hobby.  As persfectstorm said, don't bombard them with calls and/or emails, that is one of the best ways to get yourself totally ignored. Calls should be ok, but if you leave a msg, be sure to let her know what time is ok for her to call you, if you have limits.  Since I do not have that problem, I just tell them they can call me anytime.  If you are looking for an email response, be sure to check your spam folder if you have one.

Swim

to me.
The majority of "Pre Screens" seem to be fruitless attempts by unsure clientele.
Most guys use these in lieu of double booking or as an attention seeking method...so, I tend to over look them.
I've found that minimizing various time consuming yet fruitless task would be more of a benefit to my biz in the long run.
So, If you want to see her then sen an appt request form..
Just my .02

Thanks for all the info, I am most definitely haven't broken into some stalker zone! Hah. Basically I will have patience an make sure to mention the follow up comment if I dont have a reponse in a few days. (along with an appointment request form)

Yes! I got a response

You'd think it's Christmas with how excited I am.. I shall be naughty! Hah

Dude . . .  bro  . . . just FYI . . . I have p411 . I seem to have best results when I send a Request an Appointment form thru p411 about one week in advance.  In the ReqAppt form I indicate the date and time I am looking for, and if I have some flexibility about date or time I put that in the message as well.  Also, I ask for a respone either thru p411 as a private message or to my private hobby email.  From then on, the communication is usually by private hobby email to finalize and confirm plans.  Of course on the day of appt, i use my hobby phone as needed.  

Using p411, this method has worked reasonably well (not perfectly) for me.

PS: as you may have noticed, it is a good idea to have a hobby phone and a hobby email.

PPS: I usually use TER VIP to pick which p411 lovely lady I would like to meet.

Peace Out.

A.H.

....many times I click "this is not spam", everything I get from P411 goes to my spam folder.  I would suggest e-mailing the lady directly.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly