Newbie - FAQ

Good advice on the condom.
inicky46 61 Reviews 1748 reads
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First of all, you can't rely on what the provider said, you've got to take care of yourself, especially if you've got an SO.  Go to any clinic where you can get tested anonymously.  If you google "anonymous testing for STDs" you'll get a bunch of them.  Now you'd better think of something to tell your SO when you decline sex with her for quite some time.  There was a thread on this recently, either on this board or the GD board.  Scroll back or use the search function to find it.

cheesypuffs 3331 reads
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Have you ever had a condom come off during sex with a provider, but she said she uses a condom every time and is clean? How did/would you react? Would you get tested immediately or not really worry about it unless you experience symptoms of something? What about getting tested if you have a SO...do you just go to a free clinic?

1192967 45 Reviews 1033 reads
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cheesypuffs 1190 reads
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4 / 14

Do you get tested for just HIV or do you get tested for a whole package of things?

McDonald000 90 Reviews 1524 reads
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5 / 14

to do to prevent the condoms from slipping off. You will need to change condoms periodically. If I stay for an hour or two, I use at least 5 to 6 condoms. The reason is, the precum from your penis causes lubrication from the inside, causing it to slip out. Most providers will also make you change condoms for Greek.

You need to choose a condom that fits you well. An oversize or undersize condom will cause the condom to slip off. You need to make sure the fit is good enough, and that there is not much room for the condom to roll off while you're fucking. For example, after you fuck for a while, the condom will increase in length because of the resistance of the pussy. That's usually a good time to change condoms.

I hobby very frequently, and this has happened to me more than once. Usually, I'll try to prevent this from occurring. If it does occur, I simply walk in the bathroom and take a quick shower and use soap. It does do anything, but it makes me clean. The provider will then also wash up too. Please keep in mind that washing myself with soap does not prevent any STD's. I am taking these measures to be clean, and wash the juices from her pussy off.

If you have an SO, you definitely need to be tested. As for me, I usually wait about several weeks. The reason, the visible symptoms of some STD's are not visible to identify. Some STD's have periods, and do not show up on test results. For example, if I saw only on provider, and got tested after one month, and the test result was negative. However, I decided not to see any other providers or any other women, then I decide to get tested again after three months, and the result is positive. That's just an example. Some STD's have different cycles. Hope that helps.

1192967 45 Reviews 837 reads
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6 / 14

you never know what could come of the unintentional contact. It's better safe than sorry in this case for sure.

cheesypuffs 707 reads
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7 / 14

Do they do whole package things at free clinics or how much would that cost me?

tallslim26 26 Reviews 1614 reads
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8 / 14

Assuming that you are seeing as reputable provider and not one who is a step up from the street, I would not worry too much, though it is not an ideal happenstance.

A responsible and reputable provider is seeing alot of guys over time but you can assume all of these meeting are as yours was, with a condom. Sure they have a personal life, but most of the ladies I have seen have not struck me as too wild and crazy not to do what needs to be done to stay disease free.

There are certainly no guarantees but I would feel better if that happened with a provider than if it happened with a random girl met at a bar or something.

deb4512 1131 reads
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9 / 14

This is the newbies board.  If you put this up on the discussion board they would rip you appart like they did me! lol

King_Hump 3159 reads
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10 / 14

spread of SDTs. When you call, ask about the cost of a full test.

King_Hump 693 reads
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11 / 14

Large men need brands like magnum. Smaller men can use regular sizes. When applying a condom, the condom should be applied and the base should be rolled until the wide end of the condom is fulled rolled out to the base of the penis. If the condom binds and catches before being fully rolled out, it will slip off during sex. Experienced, professional providers typically have several sizes of condoms handy and know how to properly fit them on clients.

King_Hump 1089 reads
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12 / 14

He shouldn't assume. To go farther, he should find reasons NOT to have sex with his SO until he knows the results of SDT tests.

PittPanther 37 Reviews 770 reads
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Did you notice immediately that the condom came off, and pulled out right away?
Or did you not notice until you came inside her?

Posted By: cheesypuffs
Have you ever had a condom come off during sex with a provider, but she said she uses a condom every time and is clean? How did/would you react? Would you get tested immediately or not really worry about it unless you experience symptoms of something? What about getting tested if you have a SO...do you just go to a free clinic?

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 527 reads
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if you go for std testing more than every 6 months they just make u check of reason for test- you l hav to check off you r high risk for infections. whioch if u regularly hav multiple p[artners we all r high risk n should get tested min every 6 months but more frequent is even better.           AND keep inmind the scarier diseases can live in u n be dormant for years before showin intests so better safe thjan sorry get tested asap!

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